Is it weird that?!
Question: i cant give up......what so ever, people always tell me i should give up on things ive been trying to get to do forever but i cant my mind says give up but then something else says stay strong
i mean i wanted to give up alot of times....but it all ends with me not and trying harder every time i dont give up
like doing better in school...when i realized i cant possibly get any better.....i tried harder
and some people think its weird that its impossible for me to give up on anything!
i just need positive opinions to reassure its not weird...because i dont think it is...but opinions are good =]
Answers: i cant give up......what so ever, people always tell me i should give up on things ive been trying to get to do forever but i cant my mind says give up but then something else says stay strong
i mean i wanted to give up alot of times....but it all ends with me not and trying harder every time i dont give up
like doing better in school...when i realized i cant possibly get any better.....i tried harder
and some people think its weird that its impossible for me to give up on anything!
i just need positive opinions to reassure its not weird...because i dont think it is...but opinions are good =]
No its not weird, its a good trait. I'm a lot like you. Pessimists don't understand but who cares. If you give up you lose out on the possibility of what could be. So stand strong. Optimists unite! LOL
its just a character trait..
you can decide for yourself when you want to give up.. dont let your weirdness control u LOL
It's not weird. You're actually lucky to think like that...
Sounds like you have GAD. nothing is ever good enough for your standards.Because thats what I do, and GAD is what i have read this:
Generalized anxiety disorder or GAD is characterized by excessive, exaggerated anxiety and worry about everyday life events. People with symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder tend to always expect disaster and can't stop worrying about health, money, family, work or school. In people with GAD, the worry often is unrealistic or out of proportion for the situation. Daily life becomes a constant state of worry, fear and dread. Eventually, the anxiety so dominates the person's thinking that it interferes with daily functioning, including work, school, social activities and relationships.
You sound like me... Doctor told me I am a Perfectionist. Nothing really bad about it, but can get rather annoying.
Here is a little test to see if maybe that is it... http://psychologytoday.psychtests.com/te...
If so, then you may want to talk to a doctor about it.
Never listen to people who can't be supportive. Being driven is a good thing and I wouldn't let anyone break your spirit. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, when others are satisfied on just getting by. Strong inner strength is what separates you from the others especiallly if in your heart you know that you can achieve more. First and foremost is making your own self feel better because no one is going to do it for you! If you have a chance read "The road less traveled" by Robert Frost!
No it's not weird..
Just because you're goal oriented, and not a cry-baby quitter like everyone else.
Sometimes it is very hard to give up things that are important to us.That neither weird stange or a mental illness.
In fact it shows that you are determined which is good!!!
However i can only speak for myself here--i have had to learn about what i can change andwhat i cant...as sometimes i dont want to give up on things that i cannot change...its about learning what you can change and what is not inyour powerto change.
Its a hard thing to learn that can cause anxiety,deprssion ect..
But be the sounds of things you are young andthe things that you are striving for can be changed (onlyyouknow the real answer to that)
i commend youfor having the have a go and keep tring attitude.
just remember what is in your control andwhat is not.
Too many ppl give upon things they can changenotenough ppl can recognise what they can change andwhat they can notchange---goodluck