I was so stupid.?!


Question: This is not a question. So I know it will probably be removed because of it. I have posted questions about siucide because I was caught masterbating and it was put on the news. It is really nothing. What I did was stupid and crazy. You dont hear about what I did anywhere. It wasnt normal. or me to be going through this is absolutley pointless. It is stupid itself. It is something that I will just have to get over. That is such a STUPID reason to want to kill yourself. I just had trouble dealing witht the fact that people knew because of that. No one will ever hear me talk about that again. I have got a grip now. I don't know how I am going to deal with it but its not that big of a deal. I just wish I didnt do it.


Answers: This is not a question. So I know it will probably be removed because of it. I have posted questions about siucide because I was caught masterbating and it was put on the news. It is really nothing. What I did was stupid and crazy. You dont hear about what I did anywhere. It wasnt normal. or me to be going through this is absolutley pointless. It is stupid itself. It is something that I will just have to get over. That is such a STUPID reason to want to kill yourself. I just had trouble dealing witht the fact that people knew because of that. No one will ever hear me talk about that again. I have got a grip now. I don't know how I am going to deal with it but its not that big of a deal. I just wish I didnt do it.

I don't understand why that would be put in the news, but I guess it could have been? If it really was, then it's not a good reason to kill yourself. Maybe move to a new town...but not kill yourself. I'm glad you're out of this phase of suicidalness.

why the hell was that put on the news? unless you have proof of this "news" (no, i don't need to see pictures), then i don't believe you. some child masturbating is not going to be put on the news.

Everyone masterbates, but where we do it could be a really big problem. If you were out in public & got caught than you are going to have to deal with the crap. Trying to "off" yourself is pretty dumb-especially over something like that. I suggest you seek some counseling.

i tottallyyyyyy agree with Heatherrrrrrrrrr

wtf?.....well i'm sure you have a tight *grip* of the situation...why would this be put on the news?

I agree.

AND if it is true, yes you are stupid.

Had any counselling? You really need to speak with someone.

Everybody does it even if thy don't admit it

I dont think its a big deal, im sure every guy materbates, and the ones who say they dont are liars! This will blow over, its not a big deal!

Go to the library and get a couple of books on Shame. You are immersing yourself in shame and guilt. Why? What is going on here that everyone should know about this? It sounds cruel and terribly unnecessary. Only someone mean-spirited would stoop to such a low level. This really is stupid.
Some religious people do things like this. They get preached to week after week, and I think they become desensitized to the actual ability to feel emotion. They have heard so much they get to the place where they only want to feel what they think is right. They spend far too much time disparaging non-Christians for not measuring up to their standards while not having a program to minister to them. Once the sermon is over they go home to become indifferent once again.
In Christianity, our Lord was merciful. In fact, he never talked about sex or masturbating. He didn't shame the woman caught in adultery. Did you ever think about what those men had to be doing to know she was an adulterer? They would have had to watch her. Our Lord wouldn't even raise his voice to address the subject. Our Lord stood for forgiveness and mercifulness. Without another person being involved with you, this cannot even be labeled as sin. You might have been indiscreet, but there is no call for all that.
Knowledge is power. You are being fed a lie. Sometime soon you will come down off your reaction and you will feel normal once again. This will pass. I promise you it will. Try now to stop defending yourself. This has become a compulsion. Your unhappiness is not solving anything. You cannot even grieve over this, it wouldn't be appropriate.
If you must, let yourself cry. Let yourself feel your sadness, but only with the pledge that you will let it go after that. It could be cleansing. Once it passes, it can't get any worse than that. Say what you will, apologize to an empty room, and let it go. Purge yourself of any unforgiveness and be done with it. No one feels any unforgiveness, but you, toward yourself. It's none of their business.
To cling to it after that, would be obsessive. There is nothing more to gain. As much empathy as I or anyone can have for you, no one can do this but you. Find a web site and join a group for incest victims. The only sin that has been committed here is the one that broke your trust. Discretion could have handled this quietly, and you'd be none the worse for it.
True exhibitionists feel no shame, they go back and do it again and again at elementary school playgrounds, and in front of elderly women, people that can't retaliate. They get arrested and they don't care, they go out and do it again. They never stop. Is this kind of a bipolar thing with you, where your mood swings from one extreme to the other? Do you do that often? Read up and find out. Knowledge is power. Once you know, your problem is solved. You are no exhibitionist.





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