Does anyone sometimes feel like they really can't fit into any social class?!
Question: Does anyone sometimes feel like they really can't fit into any social class? Through out my life it always seems like I never really could fit into any kind of class of people. The winners or the successful people I'd try to socialize with always made me feel like I'm stupid, a loser, or a freak. On the other hand, when I socialize with the lower class of people, the so called losers of life, they look at me as being ambitious, smart, clean cut, and a winner ... someone with class. I don't know what it is, but it feels like no matter what class I try to socialize with, I just don't really fit in. Why is this?
Answers: Does anyone sometimes feel like they really can't fit into any social class? Through out my life it always seems like I never really could fit into any kind of class of people. The winners or the successful people I'd try to socialize with always made me feel like I'm stupid, a loser, or a freak. On the other hand, when I socialize with the lower class of people, the so called losers of life, they look at me as being ambitious, smart, clean cut, and a winner ... someone with class. I don't know what it is, but it feels like no matter what class I try to socialize with, I just don't really fit in. Why is this?
Yeah. Mainly because I refuse to categorise people and limit them (and myself) to stereotypes that prescribe how I expect them to act, the way i think I should treat them and be treated by them. This is a dangerous game you are playing and maybe instead of spending your time labelling people and defining yourself by these optical illusions, you should be instead looking at them as individuals worthy of being judged on their own merits or failings and defining yourself by your individuality, your interactions with other individuals, your personal interests, your actions, your beliefs and why you believe these things and most importantly, how you treat other people.
are you comfortable with your self? most clicks of friends have a range of different personalities. i think as soon as you find confidence with in your self. people will gravitate towards you. and i don't know how old you are but after high school the world becomes vast ocean of different people. there are people that spend all their energy trying not to fit into any class!
Sir or madam.. You're just you. Its how it is. Classes of people.. Ugh.. Thats just something you've made up in your head. Simply go with the flow and make friends with people aside from your similarities. Make friends that you enjoy on a more personal basis. Don't make friends of convience.
I don't fit into any group either. I have two friends and that's it. But I just keep myself company, or rely on the internet, as I have way more virtual friends than real friends. I also made friends with the teachers instead. lol.