Cant stop crying?!
Question: Im crying now as i type this... Im so upset i feel upset to the core! why is this...
Answers: Im crying now as i type this... Im so upset i feel upset to the core! why is this...
It's EXTREMELY ROUGH when you have cancer when you are young ... I know, I got malignant melanoma (the WORST POSSIBLE skin cancer, that was 98% FATAL when I got it) when I was 21. They did surgery, but gave me three months to live ... and I really did 'want to die' because I had this TERRIBLE SCAR at the base of my neck in back (it looks as if someone tried to 'behead me' using fine and scalpels!). I got EXTREMELY ANGRY though, and I FOUGHT FOR MY LIFE the way I didn't believe possible. Here I am, still going strong at 57, and I've saved over 100 lives (I was a psychologist, and worked the 'flying squad' and went to bridges and tall building to talk 'jumpers' down ... and I didn't START college until AFTER the surgery) and had the same type of cancer, PRIMARY, again ... and I'm still here 19+ years after that.
You may 'feel' that you have been given a 'raw deal' ... but it's what YOU DO now that can make a HUGE DIFFERENCE, not just in your own life, but in the lives of others ... so DRY YOUR EYES, BLOW YOUR NOSE, and get dressed ... go OUTSIDE and take a 'really good look' at the world outside your door (if necessary, go 'downtown' ... you NEED to be able to 'see people' and make 'judgements' on them and their 'happiness.') OF COURSE you 'feel ugly' now, and no doubt you have scars from the surgery, or are 'skinny' because you've lost weight or perhaps the only 'scars' are on your SOUL.
DO NOT LISTEN to people who will tell you to 'look on the bright side' ... what you need to do is look at the DARK SIDE of life ... because when you do that, you'll be able to see all of the people who have it MUCH WORSE than you do, and those are the people you need to 'reach out and help' ... then, when you have seen the 'real world' and you have a better idea of what YOU CAN DO TO MAKE THE WORLD BETTER for those people, go out and volunteer for an organization to HELP THEM ... and if there is no organization, then START ONE! This will do the TWO THINGS you need most, right now ... you'll be HELPING OTHERS, and you'll be getting your mind off of 'feeling sorry for yourself.' GOD gave you that 'cancer' for a REASON ... and if you are still here, still alive, then I think that is a 'clear message' from God that you are here to 'help others' in some BIG WAY ... so stop thinking about that 'cancer' ... and start making a 'list' in your head of the people that you 'could help' and eventually a list of those whom you've SAVED in some way ... and sooner or later, you'll be where I am now ... giving good advice to others who are where YOU ARE NOW ... because you'll be beyond it, and you'll know that it's the 'tortoise' who WINS in the end, and it WILL TAKE TIME, but YOU ARE A SURVIVOR ... and I'll be praying for you, and asking God to give you the 'signs' you NEED to be able to do the 'GOOD' He wants you to do NEXT!
you must have a reason, i dont think people just start crying out of the blue for no reason at all. something reminded you of something?
listen to some inspirational music, thats always what I do when I am down. Pumps me up so much.
Maybe you've just been through something very emotional in your life?
listen to some happy music! =)
It's called life!! Sucks doesn't it?
maybe u r boyfriend lift ya..or he died
society today is soul destroying for some people
Sounds to me like your depressed.
Think happy thoughts! ^_^ Maybe you just have a harder time expressing your happiness than your sadder emotions, so just think about things that make you happy.
Clinicly depressed. See a doctor. You might have a chemical imbalance in your brain that's affecting your emotions.
It's ok dear. You made it through the cancer. And you can always think of the people that care for you. :D Go take a nap and you'll feel better when you wake.
its most probably your hormones...u can get all diff emotions for no reason atol. maybe go see a doctor to get yourself checked out nd tht cs u could be depressed about something which has happened to you.
Hope You Feel Happier soon!
x
I dont think one would cry without any reason.... Whatever it is... divert ur mind... happy memories, television programes u like, a friend you could phone and talk to.... a game ... anythin that wud take u out of ur depression. Be sure... not to keep urself aloof and in solitude.. It will surely make matters worse
maybe you should go visit you doctor. You can be suffering from depression.
Go to the doctor now! Our body tells us things we need to know. Go NOW please! I care but have no other good response. Please go to doctor now!
maybe you're emotional because you have PMS or something. that's what happens to me. and a lot of people go through that too. so maybe take some midol or something. and im pretty sure some chocolate would do the trick. :D
Could be some temporary chemical imbalances in your body. Try exercising, drink some water and take a nap. If it still continues for a few days the see a therapist.
You seem to have had a very stressful al-deal Try to look into Christianity which is just pure love from God, which will make you feel so happy it is unbelievable trust me.
People take the mickey out of it from saying it is fake and supporting the Atheist view but millions of people have experienced God's love.
Look at this video it changed my life forever for the better: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=...
It is about a guy called Ian (who was Atheist) and he was night diving off the island of Mauritius when he was stung multiple times by Box Jellyfish, which are among the most venomous creatures in the world. His testimony relates how he clung to life while getting to hospital, was declared clinically dead soon afterwards, and how during this time he had an encounter with God, which radically changed the direction of his life. He meet with God basically trust me it will change your life for the best.
Sounds like you are suffering from post traumatic stress disorder which can come up after a traumatizing experience . Sounds like you definitely went through one with your illness . I am sure you don't feel 100% right now, but you have to have faith that things will get better with you . The key is positive thinking ! The more positive you are , the more positive things come into your life ... Remember, God id there ! through it alll! God Bless Sweeety!