Can anyone help me calm down?!
Question: i have 2 back 2 school on wednesday yr10 where girls come in its a private school and ive had a bad yr9 and so im scared that this yrs gonna suck can someone give me a its gonna b ok speech
Answers: i have 2 back 2 school on wednesday yr10 where girls come in its a private school and ive had a bad yr9 and so im scared that this yrs gonna suck can someone give me a its gonna b ok speech
Never let yourself be in a place where you feel you don't have any options. That leads to a helpless feeling that will stress you too much.
What 'options' do you have for making this year not suck? Does you school provide opportunities to pursue your interests? For instance, say your life's goal is to visit Rome, can you learn italian in your school?
What ever caused you to have a bad year 9, look for options (different friends, different classes, etc) that you can use to avoid or minimize the stressful situation.
Good luck, it really does get better darling. It really really does.
Everyone has to do something they don't want to. For example work and school. It can be all that bad. Ur going to make new friends
chillax, there's no point in worrying about it, what's worrying going to do but make it worse?
Go see a shrink !! you have a problem ?? either that or go to an all male school !!!
It wont, you may nt ever believe this and it may seem so far away to you now but life after school is the BEST you will laugh one day when you look back at your fears at school.Relax and take each day as it comes you will realise how insignificant your school stresses will have in reality. Have fun and enjoy it, dont let anyone make you believe you are less have a ball dont take things too seriously now coz you have a whole life in front of you to do that
i had to read this 10 times to understand it. firstly; calm down, be happy, smile. it's a new year. make new friends. the past is the past. crying about the past won't change anything. MOVE ON. you'll be fine. just stay positive and be yourself.
i know exactly where you're coming from. my year 9 was so terrible due to bullying that i was home more than half the year 'sick'. course mum and dad knew i wasn't sick but they also saw how miserable i was before going to school and coming home. but in year 10 i completely changed my attitude. yes high school sucks, but there's only three more years left of it...and then the rest of my life is my own. three years seems like ages to a 16yo but seriously it's nothing. i focused on doing things out of school like sport, dance and a part time job where i got to hang out with different people. i was happier and more confident and the girls stopped bothering me. so YOU have the power to change things. it is going to be ok if you want it to be. by saying 'this yrs gonna suck' you're already setting yourself up for failure. how about 'i dont want this year to suck, so i'm not going to let it'. are you going to let these girls control your life? or is your life, your year your own? you know it is girl, don't let them get in your way!
i just graduated dux of my high school dux and im heading to a prestigous university to study arts and law. you know what those girls got into? one of them got into tafe and the rest nothing. they'll be frying my hamburgers and swiping my groceries for the rest of their lives =)