About my life?!
Question: hi i am 50 years of age, divorced twice,have 5 kids 3 over 20 2 nearlly teenages,last few years have felt like why bother going on have even thought of way to end my life. nothing ever seems to go right cant stand the hypocrices of goverments,todays violence,wars all over the world, death and destruction is all you here about.i have no friends have allways been a bit of a loner,if it wasnt for my kids i dont think i would be here now.i have a good job earn good money but even have trouble getting to work lately.just sitting here typing this makes me depressed looking out my window wondering what my lifes about,do i need profecional help
Answers: hi i am 50 years of age, divorced twice,have 5 kids 3 over 20 2 nearlly teenages,last few years have felt like why bother going on have even thought of way to end my life. nothing ever seems to go right cant stand the hypocrices of goverments,todays violence,wars all over the world, death and destruction is all you here about.i have no friends have allways been a bit of a loner,if it wasnt for my kids i dont think i would be here now.i have a good job earn good money but even have trouble getting to work lately.just sitting here typing this makes me depressed looking out my window wondering what my lifes about,do i need profecional help
The government? The rest of the world? You're not living for the rest of the world......you're living for the good things....your kids and yourself. As for friends.......most people actually have less than they really think......especially outside of family. You can count most true friends on one hand.....and actually have a few fingers left to pick your nose. As for ending it all......wow.....wouldn't that just contribute to the carnage....and make the lives of your truest friends (your family) miserable? There are a lot of people the world that have it rough......dare I say possibly rougher than you. But somehow they find the strength to go on. Shrink your world a tad, and concentrate on how to make it better. Try not to concern yourself with things you cannot change. The fact that the world's problems bother you speaks greatly of your heart. The world cannot do without people like you. If you give in.....that's one less soldier for the good guys.
Suck it up and be an adult. No wonder our world is in such bad shape. Everything should work itself out once you reach a certain age. Right? Take care of your kids.
to me, it seems like you really really do need some professional help. Please seek it... you don't know how many people would be hurt if you gave up.
I'd recommend talking to a therapist about these feelings. Anytime you question your own life is a sign that maybe you should talk to someone, and talking to a professional can help. Just think of what it would do to your children if you were gone. They would never be the same, and you don't want them to suffer. Please consider talking to someone about these feelings. I wish you the best of luck.
Yes, you need a physcologist. You also need some more fun in your in your life! NO wonder your depressed, sitting at a computer all day would make me too! You should have more fun!
I am 14 years old, and I think exactly like you. Maybe email me or Instant message me, and we can talk about it and hell, maybe even do something about it!
Yikes dear, u should def get help. There are many many support groups and maybe taking meds will help! Do you live alone? Maybe joining some type of club for seniors or a new hobby that can get you out of the house. Its ok to be a loner, there is absolutly nothing wrong with that. Maybe u can put up an ad on a dating website? A new girl in your life could bring a lot of excitment and joy! But i recommend talking to a therapist and getting on meds to stabalize your mood. Good luck!
The right counselor would absolutely help. You've had a lot to deal with and probably have a lot to work through. A different point of view on things can do wonders. If the first counselor isn't what you need, find another. Check with churches for ability-to-pay counseling and go for it. You need a change for the better. Go for it! Medications help some people, but you still need to work through the issues or they will always be there. Good luck.
I think before you get help, try doing something to fix it yourself. Change what you don't like. If your job sucks, or you don't have a woman, try to fix those problems. And you can do a little bit to help with those bigger problems, too. At the very least, you could donate. I don't think you have a problem. I think you are surrounded by problems. Don't kill yourself, though. You have children that need you.
i feel your pain but i think u need a vaction to the carribean or somewhere nice with you kids so that u can have a little fun
I am like you...except I'm only 14. I highly suggest you get professional help. If you kill yourself, it will intensly hurt your kids (sorry for the guilt trip) and suicide can run in the family. If you do it, it is more likely that your kids will. Please help yourself. Maybe get a new hobby and change jobs.
I know exactly how you feel....I have learned to say "it's not always going to be like this!" It's like promising myself a better tomorrow. You have to care about yourself! It's the only one you'll have and there will never be another you especially for your children. Help others around you and if you'll look for them you'll see you have a lot to be thankful for. Without sounding religious.....because I'm not, not at all ----you need Jesus. :-)