How can I make myself realize that im beautiful?!
Question: I have very low self esteem... I dont feel pretty and im always afraid of being judged. Boys find me attrative and my friends say Im pretty but I dont..help!!?
Answers: I have very low self esteem... I dont feel pretty and im always afraid of being judged. Boys find me attrative and my friends say Im pretty but I dont..help!!?
If you don't feel pretty, then you should try new things! Maybe do new makeup or exercise or get a haircut...something to make you feel better...
I'm sure you're very pretty...especially if boys find you attractive (I was told I was pretty throughout high school, but I didn't go to a single school dance or anything...see how that feels! -_____-). Just focus on the positive things instead of negatives!
If your friends say your pretty, think about that the next time someone says something negative...besides, who are they to tell you something mean? They don't even KNOW YOU!
It's great to have friends that KNOW you and still find you pretty...because believe me, someone might look cute, but get to know them and you might find them to be unattractive and mean...
Just think positive! You'll be even prettier for it! ^____^
You can't MAKE yourself love yourself. You just need to come to a realization that you are who you are. This is up to you not your friends.
If "Boys find you attrative and your friends say you're pretty" than you obviously are. That's all there is to it. You're just really self-consious and you don't need to be.
Is that a hint so that no one here will say anything negative about you?
are you religious, do you exercise, volunteer in your community, do you have hobbies, like pets, helping children? find something to give yourself some foundation, a solid footing on which to build a life full of enrichment and satisfaction.
religion often gets a bad rap these days, and many people are shying from joining, which results in a culture of personality and fame. instead of rewarding life experiences many people fall back on beauty, wealth, image and chemical dependencies, which are not healthy alternatives to healthy and mature personality growth. look at the hollywood icons who suffer daily, for lack of true happiness.
remember beauty is not always external but more internal and radiates from character first. good luck in your journey and finding your inner fire. it can keep you warm and it can burn you, also. be careful.
accept that you have flaws both physical and character flaws. we all have them. get to know your flaws and the more you accept them the more you won't worry about what others think of you. and when you do get a chance to take notice of, or be noticed for your strengths, you will really appreciate them all the more. seek a therapist as well and really talk it out
Take really good care of yourself. Wear clothes, perfume and make up that make you feel pretty. Do exercise and eat healthy foods. Tell yourself everyday that you are pretty, but not only on the outside, on the inside too. Do things for other people that make them feel good. This will make you feel good too.
You have been trained to expect the unreal. Your brain will hurt you if you hope for false things and then get sad. Be safe in a safe place... you don't want to live the way winners do anyhow.
There is a really good book called "Recovering Womens' Self Esteem" you can get at Amazon.com. I recommend it - I think you'd find it helpful. Your problem (obviously!) stems from low self esteem, and I am sure it's branched out to other areas of your life. Give the book a try and maybe talk to a counselor, too.
1 I feel you have some complex built up inside you. You value external factors more in your personality, like what others will think of you? Raise your self esteem. Practice yoga for self confidence and dont bother about what others think of you? Practice rhythmic breathing for confidence, cool nerves
www.yoga-for-beginners-a-practical-gui... Try reading the book "Think and grow rich"
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2. Find a purpose in life, your life will be most beautiful if you can help others..Try to read the book
Seven habits of hgihly effective people
3. Relax a while and give somebody an opportunity to tell you that you are beautiful..
hope it will help, let me know
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Daljit
accept who you are and get over your low self esteem.. look in the mirror... you arent ugly your friends and boys say you arent... there are alot of uugly people you should be thankful for the way you look
What helped me was to go to a few people I felt comfortable with that had complimented me, and ask them what specifically they found attractive about me. I think I assumed they were just saying I was to make me feel better, but when I heard that they liked my eye color, my skin, my height, and my figure, it gave me some things to appreciate about myself. I don't think most of us will ever truly believe we're beautiful, it's natural to be self-critical. And you can't please everyone...people will often say rude things, even if they don't mean to. Also realize that just about everyone has the same fears you do. Next time you feel this way, look at the next closest person to you and try to imagine that they feel that way, too, because they probably do. Along that line, try telling a couple of friends today specifically what you like about them...I'll bet they'll give you some feedback, too! If you grab onto just a few things to like about yourself, it can give you lots of confidence. Try it!
have a shot
cheers!
get really skinny and wear colored contacts