How can I train myself to have a cold heart?!
Question: I'm sick of the hurt, the anger, the dissapointment. I'm not being hypothetical, I seriously want to know how to become cold and uncaring like everyone else in this world.
I can't live like this, I need to know how to teach myself not to feel.
Answers: I'm sick of the hurt, the anger, the dissapointment. I'm not being hypothetical, I seriously want to know how to become cold and uncaring like everyone else in this world.
I can't live like this, I need to know how to teach myself not to feel.
Oh know, you don't want to lose that lovely, caring, nurturing person inside simply because people are being cruel towards you? What you should do, it seek counseling to build up your self esteem. And then take some courses on self defense classes or other courses that teach you to fight. And you need to find a very good friend who is as sweet and special as you are. Being cold hearted is walking on the evil side. Do you really want that or do you want to fight for what you believe to be right and good?
sheesh..i have d same problem..
changing to a cold hearted person can be learned but i have never heard of anyone wanting to, usually life's lessons will gradually teach you to be a cold hearted person over time, so i guess surround yourself with negativity and hate and eventually it'll come to you
Do YOGA, PRANAYAM it will help you immense.
there is alot of hurt in this world everybody has been hurt in there life. u don't want to be a zombie and u don't want to steep to their level. they say time heals all wounds and it does trust me i know. u don't want to be cold and not feel anything. it will get better and u will be glad u did not go cold.
Maybe becoming cold isn't the answer. Maybe you just need to toughen up a little bit. Get yourself involved and active, don't just sit around and over think things. When you become active, you don't have your mind stuck on things as much. You forget much easier. Also, talk to your friends if you need help, that's what friends are for, right? And even though you'll still be thinking about your problem, try really hard not to. It's like picking a scab, if you pick at it a lot then you'll get a scar. Remember, you're tougher than what you're going through and you will survive. Also, listening to some funky music and dancing always makes me feel better.
A cold heart will come when you have had enough, even if it's not completly cold you will learn to act like it is..It never stops hurting you just get used to the kicks in the gut and learn to move on.
Join the military or your local Fire dept. They will drill this into your brain until you are numb!
You need a change of scene,set yourself some goals and stay out of these peoples way,out of sight out of mind,it is hard but it will help you find yourself. I did this for myself many years ago because i was abused,i left town ,got a job, met new people and read every self help book under the sun.Louise Hay You can heal your life was my bible,she went to hell and back and survived.Yes I became cold,but you know what? it took a long time to get the warmth back when i decided i didn`t want to be cold no more, learn meditation, you can learn ways to protect your self (soul,Spirit what ever you want to call it) and to keep out the negative,find true friends who will support you. May you be blessed.
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your first need is to discuss this with a professional.
your needs are more than what this group can offer..
the pain will subside with time and you will be able to deal with the points in life that effect you the most.
It is hard to even think it possible at this point in time.....
call a hot line 1-800-799-7233 for example....
teen help 800-448-4663
the healing starts with the first call.........I wish for you happiness and a life with out the pain...
Being cold won't solve anything. You just need to put all that stuff you've been through to work. Let yourself know that you've been through a lot and can make it through anything.
Personaly I think no-one should have a cold heart as it causes more problems in the long run. Take it from someone who has been there.