How can i be more confident?!
Question: my (college) friends are all really pretty and skinny and confident.. i guess i am more insecure, chubby and shy.. but sometimes, especially around people i am comfortable with, i am funny and outgoing.. how can i be like that more often? and how can i be more confident? i would like to make more new friends as my current "friends" are leaving me out and making me feel like they don't like me..
Answers: my (college) friends are all really pretty and skinny and confident.. i guess i am more insecure, chubby and shy.. but sometimes, especially around people i am comfortable with, i am funny and outgoing.. how can i be like that more often? and how can i be more confident? i would like to make more new friends as my current "friends" are leaving me out and making me feel like they don't like me..
I think you're on the right track by being interested in meeting some new friends. It sounds like your current friends are making you feel insecure, so those aren't the right people to hang around with. Try joining some clubs or organizations that you're interested in so that you can meet people that have a lot in common with you.
You can also try writing a list of things that are good about you, things you have accomplished in your life (big and small) and things you're capable of. Think about the fact that your friends don't take most of those attributes into account when they leave you out. Find friends who DO take that stuff into account!
be yourself and be friendly if you show people your comfortable with yourself they will be to you just need to believe in your self
keep on going to the gym and start talking a lil bit more and dont feel all down and stuff just be happy and dont worry =D
Taking care of your self better is a help. but make your goal to fully accept yourself - as is - and not to count on the acceptance of others. Smile more. Have confidence that in your future everything will even out. Because it will.
well maybe u should just not care about your so called friends if they were really your friends they wont leave you out and make you feel like they don't like you. Its all really about whats in your heart looks are good but your heart comes first. Its good that you are going to go to the gym and eating healthy just do what you are doing to make your self feel better.By being healthy.
You be yourself. Be on the positive side and you'll feel confident from inside. And if your friends don't care for you don't care for them either.