I don't like being touched and I don't trust people?!


Question: I have been this way for ever. I don't even let my brother give me a kiss on the cheek. I hate people hugging me. I have never been abused so I don't know where this is coming from. I DONT trust many people. How can I get over this? I think I'm starting to hurt some people.


Answers: I have been this way for ever. I don't even let my brother give me a kiss on the cheek. I hate people hugging me. I have never been abused so I don't know where this is coming from. I DONT trust many people. How can I get over this? I think I'm starting to hurt some people.

Are you insecure? the only way might be to seek professional help.... it may seem weird also a hypnotist may also find the underlying cause....

hope all goes well!!

If you are still in school I would talk to a counselor there about your feelings, they will be able to help. If you are out of school I would ask your doctor for a referral to someone who can.

mayb u need some help lik a pyschatrist to help u discuss this problem

not like that. its perception. Sometimes it is good.

its understandable that you dont trust many people but about you dont let your family give you a hug maybe you should go to the doctor and see if maybe you have some kind of sintrom i would suggest that you go to the doctor

I'm the same way. U need to find out why

this can be normal. you are wise to be careful of who you trust. it depends on how you feel its impacting on your life and relationships. you may have a phobia or obsessive/compulsive disorder if its really becoming a problem. the good news is that these disorders seem to respond well to treatment especially cognitive therepy. talk to a trusted Doctor as it can also get worse over time without help.

Why do you want to get over it? It's the way you are. So, you don't like being touched. That's who you are. Other people will have to get over it.

Although, with your brother or other family members, I would suggest you suck it up and let them hug and kiss you now and then. It won't kill you. Just my suggestion.

Love Jack

sometimes people say your mother never bonded with you as a baby...and you don't know this until you grow up...some mothers are too young to have children,immature,they work all the time,and a relative or daycare raises them...they are a loving mother,,,but sometimes women have babies,,,they go back to work when the baby is 4 months old or earlier and the baby does not get the loving care it needs,thus the child grows up not wanting to be hugged or touched because as an infant he/she was not held,hugged or coddled.
this can become a serious problem in adulthood with relationships,marriage,husband...you have to trust your family at least,and allow yourself the pleasure of a hug,it took me a long time...my advice is to seek medical help(physiologist).





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