Should i kill myself?!
Question: I feel like no one would miss me. Not my parents. Not my friends. Not my teachers. None of my family other than my sisters and my nieces and nefews. But they would grow and forget about me. I do nothing but stupid stuff by accident. Im always blamed for everything. The only girlfriend i ever had admitted that she went out with me out of pity. I don't get the best grades and im scared that if i continue to live i will grow up to be a loser like my uncles. I don't want to live that life. What should i do? (Your answers may or may not influence my death.)
Answers: I feel like no one would miss me. Not my parents. Not my friends. Not my teachers. None of my family other than my sisters and my nieces and nefews. But they would grow and forget about me. I do nothing but stupid stuff by accident. Im always blamed for everything. The only girlfriend i ever had admitted that she went out with me out of pity. I don't get the best grades and im scared that if i continue to live i will grow up to be a loser like my uncles. I don't want to live that life. What should i do? (Your answers may or may not influence my death.)
I'm sorry you feel your family doesn't care and wouldn't miss you. I'm sure they would but that isn't the point here. We cannot change or control other people's actions. We can only control our response to their actions. If it truly wouldn't matter to them, why give them your life? It sounds as though you are young. Why give up on life already when you have your whole life ahead of you to make of it what you will. You've already got a good jump on things in recognizing you don't want to be a loser. It's your choice what you study in school, what career you choose and with whom you choose to spend your life. You have the power over your own life. None of us will influence your choice in living or dying. We don't know you. Life is a gift - use it well!
Live for something, anything - then you won't die for nothing.
No. Absoulutly not. Go to a therapist and they will help you. No matter what, please, please please do not kill your self. Going to a theripast will also help you learn to make people not blame you, because you will be more self confident. you don't have to tell anyone where you are going. I'm sure lots of people will miss you. just live life one day at a time, and maybe try to set goals for something that will make you happy, like your dream job or something. PLEASE! don't kill yourself! please!
No. Stop thinking of all the problems and think about the good things in life. You have a future, live for that. Suicide isn't a solution. Your family and friends and everyone who knows you will be affected whether you think so or not. Read this: http://listverse.com/health/top-10-tips-...
I hope you find some hope and start living a good life!
Nobody will forget about you, and everyone you know would be sad...You may not realize it, but people would be missing a piece of their life if you left them.
Please don't do anything
study really hard and good things will come to u.... just live for ur dreams
Use your fear of becomming like people who you see as "losers" as motivation to succeed in life
nah - their mistakes should motivate you to end the cycle of loser-dom.
show them that you're better than them!!
No, dont kill yourself. You need to go to your doc. they will recommend a psych. doctor for you. Go through some therapy and get on an anti-depressant, theres something worth living for, if you havent found out, get out and find it, the world is your oster.
SOUNDS LIKE MY LIFE AND I AM STILL KICKING AND DOING FINE NOW IM 42 YOU GOTTA FIND YOUR THING TO DO KEEP LOOKING IT IS OUT THERE AND HOW COULD YOU TAKE YOURSELF AWAY FROM YOUR LITTLE NIECES AND NEPHEWS WHEN THEY LOVE YOU SO MUCH DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT A GIRL SAYS THEY ARE SELFISH WHEN THEY ARE YIUNG ANYWAY THEY LIKE TO SAY HURTFUL THINGS I WOULDNT GIVE THE GIRL THE SATISFACTION/
Do not commit suicide. This is the worst possible thing to do. People would miss you. Your mother and your father had you so that they could give you life, they don't want you to die. They love you. You should get some help and find someone that will make you feel better about yourself. Although killing yourself may seem like a good answer, it's not. This kind of thing is very extreme, and nobody wants you to die. Please,find someone that can help you. You seem depressed and a lot of these things (thoughts of suicide, bad grades, thoughts about the bad things in life) come from this. Think about some of the good things in your life and maybe it will help.
I hope I helped you, and I hope you take my advice.
No death isn't the answer - live just to prove you can do it
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find some happiness. every1 is unhappy when they are young but please dont kill yourself. everything will get better i swear! i watched this thing on oprag a couple days ago and it was on teens that tried commiting suicide and actually lived throught it and they all regreted doing it so trust me it will be a mistake!
my views on suicide are a bit different from most people: let me explain.
When I was about 3, I vividly remember having flashes of my last life. I was in college in the early 80's, I even knew where, and how to get there. I remember drinking with my friends, and I remembered their names. I also remembered drinking myself to death. That's the background on that. Now, I realised that most of the major things that had happened in that life have repeated themselves in this life. I believe that if you kill yourself, whether on purpose or by accident, you have to go back and start at the beginning because you're breaking your contract with God. It's not how you're alike to your uncles, it's how you're different. You have the power to change how your life goes, and you seem to have forgotten that.
MJ-
Please, please, please find someone to talk to. Talk to your guidance counselor at school. There are mental health professionals who will talk to you for free. If you don't get any where at school, check your phone book for the Suicide Prevention Hot Line.
There are people who care. You have a lot to live for- even though you may not think that right now. You are young. There are many opportunities ahead of you. Don't give up.
No. Go to your parents and have them take you to a doctor. See if you can talk to someone.
NO! it may seem to you no one would miss you, but they would! DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!!!! PLEASE!!!! Just study hard and LIVE!! Have fun! Enjoy yourself! Be nice to people! Start getting social! Talk to people and stuff!
Good Luck!!!
PLEASE DONT KILL YOURSELF
Of course you shouldn't.
"...im scared that if i continue to live i will grow up to be a loser like my uncles. I don't want to live that life."
Then don't live *that* life. I think what you are not realizing is that you have a choice whether you do or don't. You have it in you to strive to be different, any person does. (Look at the people who come from the poorest of beginnings and become a huge success!)
You also have a choice in how you allow yourself to feel. Dragging yourself down will not help, but deciding to be determined to change the outlook of your future, as well as your outlook on it, is all in your hands. Do you want a better life ahead and feel better about it? Then go find it! ; ) Sure it may take some time and effort, but it's not as hard as it seems, not when you look back a few years from now and see how far you came.
In the meantime you could really benefit from meeting with a good therapist at least a few times, who can help you get this off your chest and help you get a clearer view of which way you need to go and how to get there. And at the current present time, if you are tempted enough to do it, if in the U.S. call this number... 1-800-SUICIDE
Hell no, everyone WOULD miss you in the first place. they may not always show it but they do love and always will. Everyone HAS something there good at, you just have to find it or practise it. you can achieve anything with a little effort and a little will power. the greatest athletes had to work so hard to get to there peak and when the fail, they try again and again until they succeed.
Read the Rangers Creed... I've also found it an inspiring text about how i can be the best i can and then some more!!!
I am sure people would miss you at least for a little while .
The girlfriend thing happens sometimes , but there are plenty more girls in the world, dont let it upset you , especially at your age .
As far as your grades go, are you passing everything ? could you be studying a bit more to get better? do you need more help, maybe a tutor ? You can get your parents to talk to your teacher about those things. You may also be better suited to other subjects , if you are bad at maths maybe you would do better with english.
Your life is yours to live (at least a bit later on ) and you can work to make it better. If you are not good at school now , you may get better later , or you can look at a career that is more hands on , like a tradesman (plumber,carpenter, auto mechanic)
I dont know why you think your Uncles are losers ? perhaps you could talk with one of them and ask if they are happy. A person can live a happy life without being terribly wealthy or smart.
Once your dead you have no more chances , so dont be in a hurry to throw your life away .
Hey, no offense, but this is pathetic. You can't just contemplate killing urself. You either do it or you don't. It's a matter of impulse. You can't just size up the pros and cons and asking ppl what they think. Suicide is a solution, an easy way out or just something pathetic. Inner peace. Peace of mind. Worrying about the ppl around u and what u think that they think of u is just too exhausting. It would make anyone go crazy. The whole (Your answer may or may not influence my death) just pisses me off. People reading and answering these questions shouldn't be responsible for your death. You would be if that is what you "decided" to do.
Tena Koe( Greetings from New Zealand,)
I can relate to everything you are feeling and have a clear understanding of what worthlessness feels like you are not alone there are many of us in this world that have been made to feel incompetant and of little value in this screwed up society we live in however it is important for you to understand
that these experiences are a part of a learning process as hurtfull painfull and degrading as it might be.You do have value and importance and you must have the courage and fortitude to edure such negative comments that is the real test in life for all of us the objectice of course is not to let such comments and opinions become obstacles but to use these as stepping stones.There has to be some things in life that you enjoy doing and do quite well focus your attention on these activities live for yourself
don't kill yourself. killing yourself won't help your problems. talk to someone about your problems.
First of all, you shouldn't kill yourself because of the way other people treat you. You should learn first off that the only person you truly need is yourself. As for your girlfriend, you'll get fucked over a lot in your life, you just have to deal with it. Also, if your grades aren't up to par, study more, stay after school, or find someone that can help.
You should get help.