I don't know what to do anymore.?!
Question: I can't seem to do anything right these days.
My grades more or less suck, I can't get any type of boyfriend, and I just can't seem to do anything right in general.
My doctor says I might even have a learning disability.
I don't know what to do anymore.
Any advice?
Answers: I can't seem to do anything right these days.
My grades more or less suck, I can't get any type of boyfriend, and I just can't seem to do anything right in general.
My doctor says I might even have a learning disability.
I don't know what to do anymore.
Any advice?
First of all, relax (I know it is hard to do but). Sounds like you are adding extra stress to yourself.
Take things one step at a time, slow it up.
Check with some doctors to examine the possible learning disabilities. It is not the end of the world if there are issues. Most everything can be dealt with.
As for your grades, same type of advice, spend a little more time on studying. Get tutoring and extra help if you need.
You may come across shy or unapproachable to boys for some reason. If you have a few close friends, ask them how you come across. Boys are just as afraid to approach girls as you are them.
Just know that for every problem, there are usually things that can be done to remedy them. Turn a negative attitude around. Do things that make you feel good and show the type of person you are.
I feel ya there. I'm kind of going through the same thing in my life. I've already completed my schooling. But, in general things aren't lining up for me like they used to. It could just be a sign that a)you might have too much on your plate b)something is distracting your attention c)maybe you are eccentric and that's not a bad thing. I've found that I'm just going to live life and if it's alone, so be it. I don't need someone to exist. Your doctor said you "might" have a learning disability. Take all the testing you can to find out if you in fact "have" a learning disability. Yes, I long for companionship (I'm recently out of a bad divorce), but I know that I don't need anyone and it makes it easier if my life isn't going the way I'd like it to. So keep your chin up and realize this is you and this is your life and be happy about it.
I think that you are being too hard on yourself. At times it may seem like nothing goes right for us in life, but thats when you need to take a step back and just relax. Thinking about how you cant do anything right, will only cause you more stress therefore resulting in more bad news. Just take it easy, find a way to relax your mind. Think positive and you'll see how things will turn around.
Best of luck!
go back to your doctor tell him or her how you feel talk to parents or freinds dont say how old you are but there is help lines you are not on your own good luck hope it inproves
some of the best advice i ever received was:
don't despair.
if you fall into despair and can do nothing but wallow in your problems, you won't get anywhere.
i am going through something very similar to you right now, and there is no simple solution, especially since we're all different.
but,
just don't despair.
i wish you the very best.
You may very well have a learning disability. A doctor can help diagnose this. And put you on medication to help you focus. You could also be under stress. Maybe doubting yourself. Talk to someone, a friend or family. Don't beat yourself up about it. Something right will eventually happen.
take a deep breath first of all and relax your mind for a few minutes. i think you're worrying too much (i've been there, so this sounds pretty familiar to me). there's nothing at all wrong with having a learning disability if you do in fact have one. you won't be alone in that. the best thing you can do for yourself right now is relax and stop putting so much of a burden on your shoulders because, in all honesty, you don't need to do that to yourself. if there's anything else i can do or you just need to clear your mind feel free to send me an email and i'll be happy to help.