I feel like I'm not making something out of my life?!


Question: Well, I'm 14 on the 5th of Febuary, and it's actually been bothering me to know that I'm growing up so fast and haven't accomplished anything important.

Mostly, in my life from ages 1-6 I had a small, childish/baby life. Just like everyone else. When I was 7-10 I liked to read, play with dolls, and go to school. Whatever I did, it was mostly by myself. From ages 10-12 I started getting a little worried and anxious about my health. When I was 13 I had my first case of Anxiety. From ages 12 and up I mostly got on online games such as Runescape, Gaia, Toontown, Millsberry and Habbo. I'm 14 in a few days, and what have I accomplished? I feel like time is running fast, but I'm not moving... :(

About 3 years of my life were mainly years where I always worried. Currently I have a sleeping problem. I don't get sleepy like I used to, but that's not it. Each night I sleep no more then 7 hours. Mainly 5, but sometimes I get 6 or 7. I sleep at 11 or 12PM and I.. CHECK DETAILS FOR REST


Answers: Well, I'm 14 on the 5th of Febuary, and it's actually been bothering me to know that I'm growing up so fast and haven't accomplished anything important.

Mostly, in my life from ages 1-6 I had a small, childish/baby life. Just like everyone else. When I was 7-10 I liked to read, play with dolls, and go to school. Whatever I did, it was mostly by myself. From ages 10-12 I started getting a little worried and anxious about my health. When I was 13 I had my first case of Anxiety. From ages 12 and up I mostly got on online games such as Runescape, Gaia, Toontown, Millsberry and Habbo. I'm 14 in a few days, and what have I accomplished? I feel like time is running fast, but I'm not moving... :(

About 3 years of my life were mainly years where I always worried. Currently I have a sleeping problem. I don't get sleepy like I used to, but that's not it. Each night I sleep no more then 7 hours. Mainly 5, but sometimes I get 6 or 7. I sleep at 11 or 12PM and I.. CHECK DETAILS FOR REST

Safia, you sound very sweet ! Dear just learn as much as you can while you are living with your family to prepare you for life. Enjoy your youth while you have it. Try not to worry, because stress can hurt your health over time. Sleeping 6 or 7 hours a night is just fine for many people. The key to falling asleep is clearing your mind and taking deep slow breaths. Try to do well in school to give yourself the best opportunity to be what you decide to be. When you decide to date, be careful that you pick a very sweet boy who respects you totally. Pick a career you know you will enjoy. Don't belittle yourself inside. Jesus loves you and giving your heart to Him will make your life much much happier. Take care of yourself dear. Eat a good helathy diet and exercise to keep yourself strong. God bless! Happy Birthday!!!

dont worry about that stuff yet.you have your whole life ahead of you.

your a kid..
study a lot...go to school....................and apply yourself.................maybe become a teacher.doctor.nurse...........
life is long and if you do it right you can accomplish a lot of great things and have fun..

You're 14 yrs old but are worried about things that bother 40-yr- olds lol. At your age, you should be having fun, playing ball, and eating spaghetti. The problems you should have are schoolwork, pocket money, and friends.

You're only 14. I know how you feel - I've suffered with anxiety for years and I know it means you have less sleep, but at the end of the day you ARE just fourteen. Try and realise you have no MAJOR responsibilities such as bill-paying etc. If you had those worries, you'd feel a lot more stressed/anxious! Try and enjoy being fourteen. And what do you mean you've achieved nothing? I'm sure if you looked at all your qualities and accomplishments you'll realise you've achieved a hell of a lot in your life already and you're not even 14! Enjoy life :)





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