Everyone insaltes me and is mean to me. How to deal?!
Question: Hi. Everyone is doing that to me. I even try to break a fight and it backfired! How to deal? Especially when everyone is aganist you?! And my sister insalted me gets me into trouble, etc. I valve her opinion. She said "your school is stupid! why are you here?!" now i am all upset, sad and discouraged! how to deal? thank you
Answers: Hi. Everyone is doing that to me. I even try to break a fight and it backfired! How to deal? Especially when everyone is aganist you?! And my sister insalted me gets me into trouble, etc. I valve her opinion. She said "your school is stupid! why are you here?!" now i am all upset, sad and discouraged! how to deal? thank you
next person bes mean to you turn around and knok the **** out of them
"Whatever you do most, you do best." If you worry too much, of you feel down, if you think bad thoughts, then that is what you will become best at: being unhappy.
Instead, find something else to do most. A hobby or a sport, or anything creative. I find that writing is what I do most-- I am not the best writer in the world, but out of all the things I do, I do that the best.
Best of luck to you.
well..if its like, everyone at school insulting you as well you should join a sport team at school and you'll have stuff in common with lots of people and make friends in your sport team. If people pick on you, you could make it clear that you have awesome sport skills (whether its telling them or whatever.lol). you could also hang out with your new friends and have a sweet team of bodyguards by your side
Talk to someone.
& don't take anyones ****.
honestly? screw 'em. Not literally...but you know what I mean. Try to find a group of really good friends. I know that I've got about 4 or 5 awesome friends, and I would prefer having them than trying to make everyone like me. Forget all the haters and try to stay out of drama. Breaking up fights is not a good idea, just because people are so into watching ridiculous drama unfold. If you get into the middle of a fight, the people fighting will be against you because they're trying to fight, and the people watching will be against you because they want to see it happen. People who call you stupid or insult you shouldn't matter. As long as you know it's not true, why does it matter what anyone else says? Look at it this way. It doesn't matter what people call you. It matters what you answer to. If someone says "Hey stupid!" It doesn't matter at all unless you turn and acknowledge it. In the end, they'll get bored and move on. If they don't, then they are probably just bored with their own lives because they obviously have nothing better to do than to pay attention to yours.
Aloha from Down Unda!
Any insults hurled by anyone to anyone merely for the purpose of affecting bad feelings must only be ignored or considered for good ends.
Sticks & stones can break my bones but words will only HELP me...
~ consider the source [EVERYONE?]
~ consider the motives [Everyone?]
~ consider the validity [Everyone?]
~ be considerate to everyone
Best wishes ~
You need to get to a point where you don't care if they insult you..They do it because they have their own self -esteem issues..Don't let it discourage you..Forgive them or it will backfire on you!!! You're the strong one here that's why they insult you...Don't let it stress you out and just turn the other cheek...
You start cracking jokes upon yourself,then u'll notice that no one will be mean to u, be open minded, take others insults lightly, keep smiling & don't bother much about others.Good luck.