I Need Help..... Bad?!
Question: Ever since I were young i have had, on some level, depression. Every school id been to i was bullied quite alot, verbal and physically. It gotten worse now im older, no im not being bullied, but it has ruined my self confidence. I don't go out and socialise, im not seeing anyone and if a girl does take an interest I seem to just push her away. Is there any way I could regain my self confidence.. Please Help.
Answers: Ever since I were young i have had, on some level, depression. Every school id been to i was bullied quite alot, verbal and physically. It gotten worse now im older, no im not being bullied, but it has ruined my self confidence. I don't go out and socialise, im not seeing anyone and if a girl does take an interest I seem to just push her away. Is there any way I could regain my self confidence.. Please Help.
Counselling.
And if that's not an option, choose to be around the people that make you feel good about yourself. Choose to do the things that you enjoy and are good at. Your confidence will come back a little a time.
As far as confidence around girls? I don't think any male is truly as confident as some of them appear to be.
God Bless and good luck!
The kids that have bullied you are not worth waisting a thought on. Try to find the other kids in school.
Look around to see which kids are kind of quiet.
Go and talk to these kids. Not all the kids are mean.
If a girl does take an interest in you, ask her if she would like to go for pizza, a movie, to the mall or whatever else would interest both of you. Good Luck and keep reaching out for friends.