Is death really the end of my pain?!


Question: If I die and release myself from the hell I'm currently suffering, will the pain really end? I'm scared of living as each day is too much for me to take, especially the detachment. But I'm scared of what will happen once I'm dead. Will I know what's happening or will that be it.
I know it's a pretty deep question, but I hate my feelings right now.
I went for an emergency appointment with my psychiatrist yesterday after telling my gp I can't survive like this much longer. The psychiatrist won't do anything til monday. What use is that? It's like I won't be taken seriously til I've done something. I don't really want to, but I can't get it out of my head.
It's driving me insane.
I phoned samaritans today, and felt better for a while. I think I need to go phone them again right now.


Answers: If I die and release myself from the hell I'm currently suffering, will the pain really end? I'm scared of living as each day is too much for me to take, especially the detachment. But I'm scared of what will happen once I'm dead. Will I know what's happening or will that be it.
I know it's a pretty deep question, but I hate my feelings right now.
I went for an emergency appointment with my psychiatrist yesterday after telling my gp I can't survive like this much longer. The psychiatrist won't do anything til monday. What use is that? It's like I won't be taken seriously til I've done something. I don't really want to, but I can't get it out of my head.
It's driving me insane.
I phoned samaritans today, and felt better for a while. I think I need to go phone them again right now.

dYour psychological pain is definitely more than your coping skills can handle. I've been in that indescribable horrible place. If you are having compulsive thoughts of suicide, ask yourself, "Am I in the right state of mind to be making this important of a decision right now?" Chances are you are NOT.I don't know all your details, but I hope you are on medications that help you, (we all know there is no cure for mental illness) and have a psychiatrist that really cares and listens, instead of prescribing you the latest Drug that gets him points toward his Hawaiian vacation. ~I'm not kidding, I worked in the medical field many years.You have to be your own advocate. If a med is not working-demand it be changed. If your Dr. isn't working out for you~please find another one, but don't give up! Ever! Our medical system is in a very sad state right now, unfortunately. Even the Hotlines are understaffed, and people wait 45 minutes to get a call back. You will make it through this. It is not your time to die. Write your thoughts and feelings in a journal for now, that you know nobody else will read. Scream, yell, get as angry as you want with your words about how you feel and how unfair you feel it is!! Write anything you want. When you are starting to feel better, try to write down 5 things that you are grateful for every day. It can work miracles. Bless you. Call a friend or relative right now if possible. I Care~ a suicide survivor.

i dont think that you sould give up yet try more stuff
maybe youll find something worth living
good luck with your descisions!!!

Carefully, is your pain emotional or physical?

Emotional pain has many cures, physical maybe cured or can be endured.

Why think of death, choose to get better, or the best you can be.
Life is beautiful even when it is painful. Do not give up.

Well...while I'm sure you don't care...your pain would end (No body=No Pain) but your family and friends pain would just be starting.

death is never the end of pain
you have to try and get through it
and fight it
when your "hell" is finally over
you'll be thanking yourself you didn't die
believe me

I seriously think you should wait until Monday to see that psychiatrist. If you've felt so bad up until now, what's three more days. What have you got to lose?

I don't think anything happens after you die. I strongly believe that death is the complete end. It's like going to sleep and not having any dreams. You're just gone. However, I'm not claiming to know for certain. No-one knows, and if I'm wrong then killing yourself would be an awful mistake. You could end up in hell or something.

Just stay strong for a few more days and see what the psychiatrist can do.

you know life is funny. a lot of stuff is temporary and you won't believe how many things don't look so bad when you get some time and space in your rear view mirror. Trust me on this one (been there) Please keep phoning the Samaritans if that does put you at ease. also 1-800-suicide or 1-800-273-TALK helps too. If that doesn't help try going to another hospital. I wish you much happiness today and forever.

You need to calm down and if you need immediate help, call an ambulance or go your hospital ER right away, I don't believe you are making idle threats and are very serious because you are hurting alot. I know you're in a horrible situation right now that doesn't feel like it'll ever end, but if you just give it time, your life will become easier.

This is manageable even if you can't see the other side of it right now and I'm really glad you have the Samaritans to talk to. You only have to hold out a little longer and your doc will be able to help you. Good luck and I feel for you.

take valium makes you feel good. but you need a subscription for it. So when you see your doctor ask him if he can subscribe it for you . and for the suicidal mentality you have, NEVER take your life away, it will only make those around you suffer from your loss.

you sound like a very strong very smart person. in my opinion being that i am a christian the hell you will face once you die is soooo much worse than this. i have suffered with depression almost all my life and things do get better you just have to hold on. it may take years. i know it took me almost 4 years to feel happy again but its worth the wait :). i used to think the same thing about 3 years ago i would be sitting in my bed saying i want to die sooo badly but i am sooo scared of what may happen when i die. im glad none of my attempts ever worked life is so much better than death. hope that helped

No, because the pain will only begin for your family.

Please present yourself to an Emergency ward, or ring your doctor again and tell him you're suicidal and need urgent attention.

Your pain is mental, you can be helped through your suffering. Please let someone help you. Do not take your life.

You should get REALLY, REALLY drunk.





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