What did i do wrong?!
Question: people keep saying oh life is happy you should get happy and stop complaining and crap like shut the hell up
so should i shut the hell up
just hold in everything im feeling and everyhting ive got going on
i mean i just wanted to talk to someone about whats going on in my life
was that so wrong
to want to open up to someone
apparently...
so someone please tell me where i went wrong
whenever i tell people about my problems they always tell me to shut up
well not everyone
but still
can i make people care?
i mean ugh
i just wanted someone to care
but probably everyone on here is going to call me stupid and tell me to shut the hell up
if so just please dont answer this
if already deleted a boatload of questions because thats what all the answers said
you dont believe ive got any problems go and read some of the first questions ive posted...
Answers: people keep saying oh life is happy you should get happy and stop complaining and crap like shut the hell up
so should i shut the hell up
just hold in everything im feeling and everyhting ive got going on
i mean i just wanted to talk to someone about whats going on in my life
was that so wrong
to want to open up to someone
apparently...
so someone please tell me where i went wrong
whenever i tell people about my problems they always tell me to shut up
well not everyone
but still
can i make people care?
i mean ugh
i just wanted someone to care
but probably everyone on here is going to call me stupid and tell me to shut the hell up
if so just please dont answer this
if already deleted a boatload of questions because thats what all the answers said
you dont believe ive got any problems go and read some of the first questions ive posted...
I know exactly how you feel. /
In the past year, I've been struggling with anorexia, cutting myself, drinking and taking pills to try to kill myself./ Yet, no one I talked to is ever interested. / So what I did, is I completely ignored my friends. By completely, I mean completely. I never -never- talk to them. I don't participate in whatever they're doing. Whenever they ask me a question, I fake-smile and turn around. It may sound weird, but it actually helped me get some rage out. Of course, none of my problems disapeared, but it made my friends realize that i was actually going through something and that I wasn't inventing anything whenever i tried to talk to them. Now, they feel really guilty and ask what's wrong all the time, but I'm still ignoring them. They abandonned me when I was about to kill myself; i honestly do not care if they feel guilty. / Trust me, I know how you feel. You can always e-mail me and we can talk about how careless some people can be..
Your right. No one cares about your problems unless they are unusual. I'm not trying to be mean, but sadly that is the truth. Even people that act like they care don't.
No, don't shut the hell up. The longer you hold your feelings in , the worse things will be when you finally explode.
It happened to me recently.
It does sometimes feel like nobody cares.
it's so important to be able to talk to someone, someone who genuinely cares.
Did you try calling any helplines?
I've called samaritans today (I was in a VERY bad state) and they called me this evening to check i'm ok. (it is anonymous though if you don't want to give your details, you don't have to. I just chose to give mine)
They asked do i want them to call tomorrow, so i said i'll call them if i need to.
It made me feel important, and that i'm worth caring about. I don't feel that often.
I would advise you to call a helpline, just to release what you're feeling. It works for me, if only short term.
Give it a try. They will just listen as you talk, and if you want they will just talk to you and give you advice.
Don't go through it alone. That's the worse you can do. I tried that- it doesn't work.
Best wishes.
Umm, Raitlin, I have read your other questions just now, and I really dont see what the questions are even about. All you do is go on and on about nobody caring. Caring about what? So you say you are a cutter. Okay; well I am very sorry to hear that. You must get help for that. But WHAT PROBLEMS? I think your biggest problem appears to be that you totally just feel sorry for yourself. Why, I am not sure, you do not say. But it sure sounds like you are about thirteen years or fourteen years old. If so, then you are experiencing the insult of raging hormones. You may want to talk to a parent about this.
We are just people on the Internet on a Saturday. This is not a clinic; nobody is giving out psychological diagnoses or counseling. Go outside; enjoy the day. Try doing something kind for someone else, just for the sake of being nice. Take the focus off of your self for a bit. You are obsessing, totally.
You didn't do anything wrong, find a good friend to talk to in person who can hug you when you need a hug. There are people who truly do care, just don't make the mistake of telling someone who doesn't because then you will be less willing to tell someone who does. Sometimes the person who cares for you most is right underneath your nose. :)