Why is better to hold everything in emotionally?!
Question: especially when you have a lot of problems with your family with school with friends
why do people prefer you not say anything and just not talk about whats really going on
wh ydo people prefer to watch someone else fall rather than helping them by talking or anything
why are some people like this?
Answers: especially when you have a lot of problems with your family with school with friends
why do people prefer you not say anything and just not talk about whats really going on
wh ydo people prefer to watch someone else fall rather than helping them by talking or anything
why are some people like this?
Those people are wrong.
If you do not talk about how you really feel, you and your friends will drift apart. You and your family will start to fight about stupid things, because you are ignoring the real issues. And if you keep it inside long enough, it can lead to anxiety and depression.
There is no need to flip out when something happens, but talking about your true feelings is best. Some people don't want to deal with the truth: they think it's too messy. And in the short term, things are easier if people are happy and pleasant all the time-- but being fake is not going to create a healthy relationship.
"honesty is the best policy!"
If you are having trouble finding a true friend to listen, do not bottle it up. Write as a way of getting it out, or you could consider a therapist.
Don't worry, you will find true friends who you can open up to someday. Unfortunately, most people are selfish and think only of themselves and their own feelings.
Because they suck?
Everyone needs to vent sometime in some way. Just when you do it, make sure you're not hurting someone.
because women are stupid. unless its their problem they don't care.
I have learned that its better to keep it to yourself...no one really cares.
why is better to hold everything in emotionally? - It isn't.
It is "easier" for the people around you, maybe.
Maybe they feel guilty about something? It is best to deal with things, get them out in the open & move on. Easier said than done, but better.
The reason people seem to get joy out of another's pain (or belittle someone) is because they are insecure - it makes them feel superior.
because they were probly brought up in a household where meotions were not discussed or encouraged.
its all about childhood, how an individual was raised affacts them alot.
hold everything in emotion isn't a good way because you will only find desperate in your life. You should open to everyone especially your family when you are having a difficulties at school or work because they can make you relax.
People prefer to watch someone else fall, it depends if that someone is someone who is a geek or loser (sorry) he/she wouldn't help him because he would feel embarassed to help a geek (really sorry). But when his/her best friend he would help him/her.
Sometimes people help someone because he/she has a debt or a life debt maybe and wanted to help also (that's not a good attitude).
The conclusion: most people rather help someone who is close to him, but won't help someone who he didn't know. but please do it the opposite way.
Because people tend to only care about themselves. If you need help they are not so willing, but if they need help than they want you to be there for them always. It's really very hipocritical.