How do I overcome a fear in a relationship?!
Question: I am afraid he is going to dump me in the future. I just cant help but be scared of a heart break.
Answers: I am afraid he is going to dump me in the future. I just cant help but be scared of a heart break.
Relationships are the kind you need to take a day at a time. Start out as friends, that's how relationships are supposed to start. Then, they can become more serious.
Have you thought-he might have concerns of you dumping him? That is a possibility as time goes on, and you get to know each other better.
Or, it could turn out to be the best thing for the two of you to stay together.
As long as you respect each other, care about each other, that's what matters.
Take care.
I used to be like that so bad! I would get all worked up and then get it in my mind that he was going to break up with me so i would just start avoiding him. But I realized that being paranoid was actually pushing them away and making my worst fear come true... so just be yourself and stop worrying. My boyfriend always says he hates when i get paranoid and it's better for me to be confident in myself and secure in our relationship. try it.. we're actually a lot happier and i don't stress all the time!
You don't. Fear is part of being human. Later on you will learn how to deal w/ it, but never to overcome it, unless you don't care.
you just have to realize, if your afraid of heartbreak you can never really trust him to love you, and not break your heart. also heartbreak is good, you need to know what that feels like for future experiences. or if you were going to break up with someone, you want to know how each feeling feels. but yes its normal to be afraid of heartbreak, just tell yourself you know eventually you will break up, but stay in for the good times. =)
Acknowledge that you have that fear and just keep going. Eventually it should fade.