Should i tell my friends?!
Question: should i tell them that after a lot of meals recently i make myself vomit
should i tell them i havent stop cutting
should i tell them things arent anywhere near perfect with my family
and
should i tell them that i might possibly have MS and am getting MRI's done to find out
thing is i just worry if i tell them this
that they wont care and ill feel foolish for telling them in first place
and dont tell me to get new friends these friends are the closest ive got to family....
Answers: should i tell them that after a lot of meals recently i make myself vomit
should i tell them i havent stop cutting
should i tell them things arent anywhere near perfect with my family
and
should i tell them that i might possibly have MS and am getting MRI's done to find out
thing is i just worry if i tell them this
that they wont care and ill feel foolish for telling them in first place
and dont tell me to get new friends these friends are the closest ive got to family....
yes. in order for you to overcome these issues, you will need a HUGE, support system. You are not alone, and were not intended to feel alone. Your friends give you energy, encouragement, understanding and love.
Hey my friends told me everything and it's just normal conversation now. If they're real friends they will care and they'll still be there afterwards.
if they are your friends they should love you and support you no matter what you are dealing with. it's up to you how much you want to divulge, but it could make your friendships much stronger if you let them in to your confidence. that being said it could also show you that some of the people you thought of as friends aren't very trustworthy. if you aren't seeing a counsellor, i suggest you find one.
your friends will probably say::
you really shouldn't be bohlemic
cutting yourself is not the answer
no family is perfect
and MS is not a big deal
tell your friends because they will understand and they will go get you help you can basically kill yourself by cutting your wrists and being bohlemic
they will understand so tell them
1) you should not make yourself vomit..it rots your teeth and can lead to many other things...but definately tell them so they can try and help
2) you should also stop cutting. if you hit a vein you can die. tell someone immediately and get help
3) you can definately tell them about your family issus. that is waht friends are for, they will help you through it.
4) you can definately tell them you are haiving MRI's done. thats something taht is not bad, its just helping you.
5) THEY WILL DEFINATELY CARE...THEY ARE YOUR FRIENDS AND ARE THERE FOR YOU. THEY WILL NOT MAKE FUN OF YOU, AND WILL HELP YOU THROUGH YOUR HARD TIMES....TRUST THEM.
---i hope you take my advice, im really trying to help
~morgs94~
Tell them. You need a support system!