I was molested?!
Question: When I was 8 I was molested and now I just passed the 3rd year "aniversery"(2-2-08) and now i feel all different is this normal?
Answers: When I was 8 I was molested and now I just passed the 3rd year "aniversery"(2-2-08) and now i feel all different is this normal?
I was molested by my brother. And if you can believe this, most people don't, I was raped by my husband when we were married. It takes time to get over things or I should say get to a place in your life when you can deal with it. You may still need to talk to someone. No shame in that. Then one day you may be able to help someone else deal with their situation. I feel for you. I really do.
its better to get over it... why do you want to feel bad all the time... don't worry.. its OK...be strong
I am 49 and i still think about how cruel my dad was,to my sis. I still remember in flashbacks,but i don't worry. It's normal to think about it for yrs,but you just have to get on with life if you need help,then ask,don't try to cope on your own there are plenty people out there to help.
im sorry.
Yes it's normal. I was raped almost 7 years ago and still think about it sometimes. You can always talk to someone about it and it might help you. I never did and I think that's why I still think about it so much.
This is VERY normal! Don't listen to the first post. Sexual abuse isn't something you can just "get over." My best friend was molested by her grandfather from 6 to 8 years old and she's still dealing with it now (she's 22), although things have gotten a lot better. Have you seen a doctor about this? Have you told your parents? Give it time and make sure you don't supress the way you feel about it. If you ignore your feelings, they'll only get stronger with time. Good luck. I hope this helps...
You'll probably always remember it or part of it. Yes, it's normal for molestation victims to feel this way, and there are plenty of people out there who know exactly what you feel like, trust me. I haven't been molested, but I've gone through a somewhat similar experience. My best friend (a girl) invited me over for a sleepover. Then once I was asleep, she started masturbating me and kissing me all over. She took all my clothes off and I woke up with her on top of me. It was scary, and I still think about it, but not as much anymore.
Did you tell someone close to you so you could have someone to talk to? Also, the person who did this needs to be stopped because they will do it to someone else. Speak up about it. You need the support and someone needs to stop this person.
Normal may not be the word to describe. You may feel like it's not as a big of a deal to you as to how it may have felt to you before. Honestly, this is a big step in your healing process. Not playing "victim" and realizing that this sick behavior happens to many of people and they still go on with their knowing that it wasn't them with the problem but the perpetrator. Good luck i9n your healing process. I have experince sexual abuse and can say that it has only made me stronger.