Scary depressed... feel horrible?!
Question: i don't get why
my life is good
perfect boyfriend
awsome friends
it's just i keep getting thrown into a few hours where i just feel depressed and cry my eyes out
seriously the only reason i don't kill myself at those depressing times is the thought of how much Shawn (my boyfriend) would miss me and then HE would be all depressed
why do i get so ******* depressed
i'm a very cheerful, optimistic girl normally
Answers: i don't get why
my life is good
perfect boyfriend
awsome friends
it's just i keep getting thrown into a few hours where i just feel depressed and cry my eyes out
seriously the only reason i don't kill myself at those depressing times is the thought of how much Shawn (my boyfriend) would miss me and then HE would be all depressed
why do i get so ******* depressed
i'm a very cheerful, optimistic girl normally
I can answer this, I'm the same exact way right now actually. I have the greatest life yet I'm depressed. Sometimes, that's just the way it is. Depression doesn't really have to be brought on by a terrible event in your life, though most times that's what triggers a depressive episode. I've been battling depression for eight years now, and there wasn't always a reason for being depressed, I just was. A lot of people can't understand it but yeah, sometimes that's just how it is. However tough your episodes get though, just know they are only episodes, and they DO end. When it does get so tough that you feel like killing yourself, talk to someone about it. Talk to your boyfriend, that's what he's there for right?
Good luck my friend, hang in there :)
If this happens more often than when you are premenstrual, you need to get meds. You might need an anti-depression medication. Many people take them and thank God we can get them. Go to your family physician and explain this to her.
That happens, it sucks. Are you on any anti-depressants? I am and sometimes I get really poopy periods where im sad too, they could be causing it. Or maybe you are close to your period and your hormones are going crazy, or the hormones are going crazy without you getting your period soon. Try to do something to take your mind off of it, if you like crafty things do a project or read a book or take a little nap!
i know what u mean, to tell you the truth I'm the same way. the reason why i feel like that is because i feel like i need things to go wrong in my life so i can feel good about all the good things that i do have, idk its a weird thing the way our minds work. i know for me i just crave the feeling of having my life not being perfect and go horribly wrong. but not just so i can appreciate my life not, but because i guess a perfect life is just boring.... but that's just me, good luck!
Your depression might be a chemical imbalance or it might just be deep in there so far you forgot what it was. Just be honest with yourself and you will be able to solve your problem. Try to deal with your problems as they come and don't bottle up any left over emotions. Make sure the problem is resolved in you head before you store it away. Things get better with time. They don't go away when you'd like them to. It's a learning process.