How do you stop crying?!
Question: I'm always sad. i can't help it!
nothing works.
my mom said no to consuling.
i do self harm, and it seems to work a little, but not much.
i'm almost always crying.
no one really knows about my saddnes because i cover it up by laughing and smileing but i never really am happy. behind every smile is a frown.
i have no friends, just a few people who i hang with sometimes to please my mom. i really on;ly have about 2 friends, and both of them are being really jerky right now.
i don't like being sad all the time.
how do i sotp crying?
Answers: I'm always sad. i can't help it!
nothing works.
my mom said no to consuling.
i do self harm, and it seems to work a little, but not much.
i'm almost always crying.
no one really knows about my saddnes because i cover it up by laughing and smileing but i never really am happy. behind every smile is a frown.
i have no friends, just a few people who i hang with sometimes to please my mom. i really on;ly have about 2 friends, and both of them are being really jerky right now.
i don't like being sad all the time.
how do i sotp crying?
Well are you getting over a break up? I know when I was it was hard to be happy. I would cry all the time too. Any little thing would make me sad. I didn't really have that many friends either, so I just went out by myself and had a good time. It would take my mind off of things and eventually I was not crying anymore and very happy. If you go out alone you could possible meet new people and make new friends. Just do what is best for you to make you happy.
I know exactly what you mean. it happens to me all the time.
everything you just said is like my life story.
what i do, is i just find something that i like to do and makes me happy, for example, listening to music. maybe take a long hot bath and let yourself unwind.
dont be hard on yourself, try to find the good in every situation, even if its hard.
i dont like to cry all the time either.
that is so sad..
it juz my fren also seem juz like you but
she juz do something she like
'reading novel'
and never think about your damn stupid probs
juz 4get about it..
Aww, well honey life is hard, pretend that you are a lonely warrior for a while until you make less jerky friends. It's fun, try it, go for a patrol listening to some loud music, act like you are buffy the vampire slayer, lol.
You sound like you're in a really dark place right now and you do need some sort of real help. Why is your mum against counselling? If it is a money thng, there should be some sort for free or low cost treatment available to you at a community health or crisis centre...
I would talk to your mum up front and let her know about everything, the constant crying and self harm, and tell her this is too much for you to handle alone and you really do need help. Can you maybe talk to a school or college counsellor or even get to your family doctor?
You need support, but I don't know if your pals are equipped to deal with it...do you have another close family member or church pastor you can talk to this about?
why did ur mum say no to counselling for you ??? That choice is yours to make not hers so go to your doctor babe and talk to them tell them about your mum also she doesn't have the right to stop you talking to a professional she is maybe just in denial that something is wrong and doesn't want to accept help some parents see that as a weakness but im sure if it was explained to her she would do whats best for you. Please don't do things to please your mum I know it's hard but you've got to do things for yourself and think of your own happiness and well being good luck x
I suggest you go to the counselor at school and talk about this. You are obviously upset about something and need help. Stop covering up how you feel and don't hang with people to please your mother.
I strongly suggest you sit down with your parents and explain how you are feeling in detail, write it out if you have to and give it to them.