Does he sound like he has a mental problem?!
Question: I have known this guy for years and we have been good friends and knew each other pretty well. We started dating and after two years we had sex. It had been my first time and I had told him this, plus he's known me so long and well, I figured he should have known this.
Well, yesterday he tells me that he never really believed I was a virgin and thinks i've had sex with at least four guys and for some reason believes my first is this guy he hates that I haven't talked to in years and didn't do much of anything with.
WTF????????? I'm so upset, I've never given him reason not to believe me or think I'm getting with other people, plus we've hung out for years and have been to the same parties and clubs and such, and I'm not one to just go home with anybody at a club, nor am I a big flirt or one of those girls who randomly makes out with someone in front of everyone. So why would he think this??
Answers: I have known this guy for years and we have been good friends and knew each other pretty well. We started dating and after two years we had sex. It had been my first time and I had told him this, plus he's known me so long and well, I figured he should have known this.
Well, yesterday he tells me that he never really believed I was a virgin and thinks i've had sex with at least four guys and for some reason believes my first is this guy he hates that I haven't talked to in years and didn't do much of anything with.
WTF????????? I'm so upset, I've never given him reason not to believe me or think I'm getting with other people, plus we've hung out for years and have been to the same parties and clubs and such, and I'm not one to just go home with anybody at a club, nor am I a big flirt or one of those girls who randomly makes out with someone in front of everyone. So why would he think this??
No, it sounds more like a jealous, worry.
Guys can get like this when they feel insecure.
Sounds like he hasn't had other relationships, maybe? talk it over with him.
Sounds like one of those people who can't be happy without having some kind of problem. If there isn't a problem, he just makes one up.