What should i do!!!??!?!?!
Question: I am currently in a relationship that is deminishing. no love no social events no sex etc. Just a unit and stuff we have accumulated over the past 3.5 yrs. I havnt achieved anything and im depessed and fat haha and on edge.
My job is close his job is close but im not happy. i like my job and the ppl there but i just wanna crawl up in a ball and wish the storm away to a better and promising path in life. I dont know wether i have the strength 2 move away by myself, i hate sydney none of my mates r here but im comfortable and unhappy/unsettled.
I dont know wether to study or work i dont know what to do. I want to be single but i dont want to do 'this' on my own.
Does anyone have any suggestions/comforting words etc.
Answers: I am currently in a relationship that is deminishing. no love no social events no sex etc. Just a unit and stuff we have accumulated over the past 3.5 yrs. I havnt achieved anything and im depessed and fat haha and on edge.
My job is close his job is close but im not happy. i like my job and the ppl there but i just wanna crawl up in a ball and wish the storm away to a better and promising path in life. I dont know wether i have the strength 2 move away by myself, i hate sydney none of my mates r here but im comfortable and unhappy/unsettled.
I dont know wether to study or work i dont know what to do. I want to be single but i dont want to do 'this' on my own.
Does anyone have any suggestions/comforting words etc.
I would not assume that he is cheating! He might be just as unhappy, though you mention little about him. I assume he is not abusive, and you are not either, it just seems to be fading away and it feels as if you have not control.
I do agree that it might be over, but I would ask you to seek help. I have suffered from depression, and I had to get help, and I am glad I did. I suggest you get similar help.
if you're not happy you have to get away from that which makes you unhappy. call your family. move back in with family for a while till you get thigns straight. things will work out, be strong, or at least try.
honestly if you have been in a relationship for 3.5 yrs and u guys havnt had sex i get the feeling that he is cheating on u. just think about it, this relationship will end sooner or later so please make urself feel better and u break it off sooner. its in ur hands. i think u should find what u are interested in, see what u are good in and find out more about it. Go get a new hobby, go to the gym, start doing meditation, or start going to yoga. these things help you out to connect with your self. go to a school nearby and talk to a counselor, take a career test and see if something interests u. you cannot just sit around, u will get more depressed. GET UP and start thinking positively. make a new list of "to do's" you can do this. : ) ill pray for u