Alot to say.... low self esteem?..... i guess?!
Question: i know i have a very low self esteem...... im 16 and i have been talking to this 25 year old for a while now... and he wants me to sleep with him.... i have never met him..... for some reason.. i really thought about it... im over weight.... have been forever.. i have strech marks... some from growing tall to fast... i feel like well idk... i might as well just do it..... im smart.. i just dont understand why im thinking about doing this... its going to be something once i do i can ever go back............. i just dont unnderstand............... talk me out of this..........
Answers: i know i have a very low self esteem...... im 16 and i have been talking to this 25 year old for a while now... and he wants me to sleep with him.... i have never met him..... for some reason.. i really thought about it... im over weight.... have been forever.. i have strech marks... some from growing tall to fast... i feel like well idk... i might as well just do it..... im smart.. i just dont understand why im thinking about doing this... its going to be something once i do i can ever go back............. i just dont unnderstand............... talk me out of this..........
Darlin, listen to me. I'm sure that you don't want to meet this guy and have sex---listen to yourself! For one thing, anybody that tries to get some off the Internet, is pretty yucky, anyway. Imagine him on the computer, talking to you for awhile, then signing off and turning to someone else. It's a bad case of "somebody will let me". UGH! He's lazy and preying on an innocent like yourself. Having sex, especially for the first time, is something to look forward too and to appreciate. Don't give yourself away to some creep that you don't even know. You are better than that, and you deserve lots better than that!
STD's Creepy Person, YOU HAVE NEVER MET HIM AND HE COULD BE A CRIMINAL. Save your first time for that "someone special"
Do whatever you want, that is your own decision but if you ask me it sounds kind of dumb. this guy could be a serial killer .. or have stds, what kind of 25 year old guy looks for a 16 year old girl.
You've never met him and you wanna sleep with him? what the hell has this world come to? holy crap...
best thing for you is to have confidence. Do things that will make you feel more confident. I can't speak for girls but maybe go work out, lose some sweats, maybe you'll feel better.
Like you've said, "its going to be something once i do i can ever go back". That's enough reason not to do it.
Don't doubt yourself, take care.
Don't do it. You don't want to do it. Someone is lying to you, making you feel like you should because you are worthless. That is a lie! You are not worthless. You are a wonderful, amazing woman who doesn't know what a beautiful woman she will grow up to be.
You are worth way, way too much to give yourself away like that, much less to someone who doesn't know you, let alone love you. Save yourself for a man that will love you always.
no def you should not do this at all i am serious you will regret doing this
and especially when you dont kno him...he is a complete stranger
nd you probably thought about it becuz you think there is no one out there fer you? idk
but just dont do this, alrighty then
cuz ur better than wat you think
if u r wanting attention sleeping with someone isnt the answer alot of girls look 4 love n think when they sleep with a guy he will love her .wrong he will not respect u but use u n its wrong he is a pervert u r 16 save urself for a real relationship u r beautiful u think ur over wieght n well if u r work out do something to change it dont lose ur virginty to some1 u dont know u may lose ur life to aids