Can u forget someone hurts or violate u and u couldn't do anything to him?!
Question: have u ever have this situiation?have u get over it?how u feel then?
Answers: have u ever have this situiation?have u get over it?how u feel then?
my abuser abused me from the age of 5 -13yrs old. i could never tell anybody ,i did try so many times but at the last minuet i stopped i was afraid nobody would believe me. he was a popular person a joker everybody loved him. i left it for years and years.. then i found out he was a foster parent and i had to come forward, anyway to cut a long story short he got stopped from fostering and the police put him on a list to stop him working with children or near them ,,after years of counselling and psychiatrist i have been able to live without it being in the front of my mind all the time you can get over all kinds of abuse you just need professional help best wishes
I know it sounds like the last thing anybody would want to do, but talking about it helps.
It is really hard to get over, but it makes it worse is you don't say anything....
You never forget it, but the pain lessens with time. Just keep in mind that they're not all like that. Even though you don't forget, you will eventually forgive.
yes you can get over it but it takes a long time + forever
You never forget,Ive been raped reported to the police and yes they did nothing. Keep in mind I was 17 and his sister was my best friend. I hated him, the officer I reported it to, and I did the wrong thing .Went out to have sex with anyone else just to get that feeling to go away.(not a good idea)I'm over it now ,took a few yrs.But for the longest time my now husband couldn't touch me(sexually) after i fell asleep.I am now 31 and dont think of it much.I do suggest you get some counseling. You'll be fine :)
You can never forget but you can forgive! Counseling helps!
same here! forgetting takes a lot of courage..i am currently in the process of moving on..its hard to let go of feelings when u get to fall yet it hurts in return. i cried, stood up and cried again but that's life! face it, accept and understand.
oftentimes, ending blaming self of this emotion but this is just plain but normal. We are humans...of course there are days when i choose to be lonely and think of this feeling that no one affirms. Yup i break in.
I prayed fervently to let go and let him take over!
suggestion: read Passion and Purity or Quest for Love by Elisabeth Elliott...
God Bless