Where do go when..there isnt anywhere else to go?!
Question: IM 15 and my life is ruined when i was 14 i got severe anxitey witch forced me to drop out of school..lose my firend...gained lots of weight noe my bodys in horrible shape...my life is just horrible im not important all i do is sleep all day..i only have one firend..and hes not even a friend...the anxitey has ruined my life...i feel like i cant do anythign..schools impossible im taking online corses and falling behind doing bad..im not going anywhere in life..i fell worthless and at the point of no return...iv been on meds they dont help iv seen like 6 diffrent drs...they dont help..nothings helping..i wont kill myslef..only cuse i dont want to hurt my family...other then that i have no reason to live..my lifes been on the same path to no where for a year ..i just want to be like people my age..im tired of this life...i just dont know what to do anymore..i want a name for myslef...but the anxitey and deppresion has ruined my life..what do i do....(sorry for the spelling and grammer)
Answers: IM 15 and my life is ruined when i was 14 i got severe anxitey witch forced me to drop out of school..lose my firend...gained lots of weight noe my bodys in horrible shape...my life is just horrible im not important all i do is sleep all day..i only have one firend..and hes not even a friend...the anxitey has ruined my life...i feel like i cant do anythign..schools impossible im taking online corses and falling behind doing bad..im not going anywhere in life..i fell worthless and at the point of no return...iv been on meds they dont help iv seen like 6 diffrent drs...they dont help..nothings helping..i wont kill myslef..only cuse i dont want to hurt my family...other then that i have no reason to live..my lifes been on the same path to no where for a year ..i just want to be like people my age..im tired of this life...i just dont know what to do anymore..i want a name for myslef...but the anxitey and deppresion has ruined my life..what do i do....(sorry for the spelling and grammer)
I know how u feel its hard but u will get threw it
Well, i live in like a townhouse so when there is nothing to do I play basketbal in the basketball court
there is just one answer to that... when you have nowhere else to go and your life is so messed up... come to your creator... only god can hep your problems... have a personal relationship with him.... you'll see how much it will influence your life...
force yourself know matter how nervous you are bc i've been there to see a psychologist. start there. talk to them about how you feel. then if they think its necessary you'lll see a psychiatrist so they can give you medications for anxiety and depression. there are so many medications that could help you feel better. look on drugs.com. so many of them take care of depression and anxiety with one drug. drugs like paxil, lexapro, zoloft, effexor, prozac, wellbutruin and on and on.. don't give up. but you have to force yourself to see someone to get help.
Take charge of your life again. You may be in a bad place now but if you don't do something about it nothing will change.
If you are worried about your weight, exercise. Go back to school, see a therapist to work out your issues, makes friends again. You need to put yourself out there in order to get your life back on track. Its important to stop feeling bad about yourself and try to change your life for the better.
Sooo.. what happened to you a year ago that was so 'life changing'?
If YOU don't love you than who else do you think is gonna?
Hey man, your life is definitely not over. You are only 15 years old. You're not even a quarter of a way done, and dont look at that as a bad thing. My brother is going through the same thing. Just look up, and talk to God. He's always there no matter where you are.
You are just in a slump now, a long slump, but you'll get through it man, just keep your chin up even if you don't want to.
Your life is not defined by this moment in time. You can either sit still and dwell on all the negative things you listed,, or move forward,, there are lots of things you can do, Your smart enough to reach out for help here,, that means you want to change things. Try to get someone whom you can trust to help you. you must try to stay in school.. Knowledge is power,. and it will be your way out. I can tell though that right now,, you really need someone to intervene for you and help you see what a wonderful person you are and show you a direction out of the place your at right now. I am not a big fan of drugs,, all I have ever seen is damage to people,, but I am not a doctor and would never tell anyone to not take their meds. If your meds are not working as they should,, you may need your dosage adjusted, PLEASE call your doctor for that. And there must be a teen hot line or a mental health crisis line you can call in the meantime, PLEASE don't give up,, this too shall pass. take care,. I will say a prayer for your health and well being.
i could tell you to 'talk to "god"' but i don't really believe in god. All i have to say is keep going, take one day as it comes and don't think too far ahead. You could also try different meds, that may also help. anyway, Take Care.
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All right. Sounds like you've already identified what you don't like about your life:
1. School life
2. Social network
3. Lack of identity
4. Body issues
5. Severe Anxiety
The good news is that all of these things are correctable. Probably the hardest one to change will be anxiety, but I have that, too and I can tell you that it cane be beaten. Medication and cognitive-behavioral therapy, plus finding something you love really helps.
The other things are also changeable. The trick is to find motivation to study, make friends, etc. But I understand if you don't feel like doing that, either. Being anxious makes me just want to hide under the blanket and sleep for days. But take little steps.
Now, take stock of what what is going RIGHT in your life.
1. You're young.
2. You're not on drugs.
3. You're not pregnant.
4. You WANT to be something
5. You want to DO something
6. You care about your family
These 5 things alone put you ahead of many of your peers. That you are not content to live a "blah" life means that you can go far. Besides, at only 15, I promise you that your life is not ruined. Its OK to take a year to find yourself if that's what you need. My brother and sister had to do that because of severe anxiety/depression. Now my brother is graduated from college and my sis is at the best school in our state.
I read that you've seen 6 doctors and been on a lot of meds...but keep trying. Trying is progress. Besides, I think that things will improve as you get older. The early and mid teen years are usually inherantly rife with emotional fluctuations. I know mine were.
P.S.-->It might help to ask yourself, is there anything you love? Drawing, music, animals, crafts? Is there anything out there that you kind of like and might be able to really get interested in someday? I've found that these things are a tremendous source of inspiration......
you sound just like me. seriously. i dropped out of school twice. i dropped out of university too...gained weight.
i have also lost friends and yeah, because of my stupid anxiety. its horrible! i cant believe that someone else is going through this. im here if you ever want to talk.
i know some tips to help ease the anxiety if you want to know just message me!
noone understands and its pointless explaining. thats my story. im tired too. :/