Worrying about people i know having a better time/life then me?!


Question: example: i have friends in other another town which i dont visit much, my ex is also from there. Just feel shes having a better time and life then i am.

Even when im meant to be having a good time negative thoughts of her having a better time and people i know having a better time then me get the better of me.

I want to get rid of this jealousy and comparison, why does it happen?


Answers: example: i have friends in other another town which i dont visit much, my ex is also from there. Just feel shes having a better time and life then i am.

Even when im meant to be having a good time negative thoughts of her having a better time and people i know having a better time then me get the better of me.

I want to get rid of this jealousy and comparison, why does it happen?

I can't see where you are spiritually in you profile. All people have varying degrees of that negativity that you have in your question. When you committ your life to God and sincerly invite Jesus Christ into your life He will give you His Spirit, and with it, fruit of love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Then through prayer, meditation, Bible reading, and the will of God you can depend more and more on the "fruit" from the Spirit of God. But sometimes we are tested. In that case hold onto your faith and fight the devil with scripture and he will flee. Believe that Christ died to give you an abundant life and don't let anyone or anything steal that from you. See www.needhim.org, the Bible book of Romans, Galations 5:16-26, and Colossians 3:1-17, Philippians 4:4-9. Shalom!

Psychiatrist.

keep yourself occupied

do u feel guilty of something
forget about her, and get on with your own life see a psychologist

I'm going through the same ordeal.

I find that if I surrond myself with postive things I enjoy doing, I tend to think about it less. i guess I just drown it out so I don't have time to think about it.

it's a feeling I'm sure will pass.

How long ago was the break-up? And who's decision was it? If it was hers and the break-up was recent it may just be that you resent her for the break-up and as time passes you will let go of this. Maybe you blame her for you feeling sad and hate the fact that she can be happy with out you. You need to forget about other people and do something that makes you happy. Maybe you just need to go on an fantastic holiday or something you know you have always wanted to do or buy. You need to be happy yourself so it won't matter what other people are feeling. Everyone gets jealous of others some time in their life. There is no need for psychiatric help unless it interferes with your life, like, you spend every waking minute thinking about it so you can't even function at work or can't get to sleep at night.

You Have deppression it sounds like you need to see a phsyciatrist





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