Using sex as a weapon? please no stupid answers?!
Question: I don't know if this is really using sex as a weapon but is seems like a siutable tilte... anyway
me and my best friend was talking the other day, we never lie to each other. and she told me that when she says that a teacher or an authority gives her a little bit of attention different than he/she does to the others she has this thing where she almost gets obsessed with thme but not quite like that, and has this thing where she fantises that they walk into the room while she is having sex and then they feel sorry for her and confront her and try to help her but she just rebels more... but it has to be a certain type of attention she said and she loves it when people feel for sorry for her but she wont do anything directly b/c she is very shy and the quiet one in class, im really intrested in psycology and i was wondering why she is like that and what caused her to be like that, thanks
Answers: I don't know if this is really using sex as a weapon but is seems like a siutable tilte... anyway
me and my best friend was talking the other day, we never lie to each other. and she told me that when she says that a teacher or an authority gives her a little bit of attention different than he/she does to the others she has this thing where she almost gets obsessed with thme but not quite like that, and has this thing where she fantises that they walk into the room while she is having sex and then they feel sorry for her and confront her and try to help her but she just rebels more... but it has to be a certain type of attention she said and she loves it when people feel for sorry for her but she wont do anything directly b/c she is very shy and the quiet one in class, im really intrested in psycology and i was wondering why she is like that and what caused her to be like that, thanks
Everyone fantasizes, that she feels comfortable enough to share them with you means that you two are best friends, I know you are concerned, but you said yourself that she never acts out her fantasies, so she sounds pretty grounded to me.
A lot of young people are shy, I was terribly shy when I started high school, why she is like that is because of the person she is, and there doesn't necessarily have to be a cause for her being the way she is, we are all different, we are who we are because of our upbringing, mostly, but once we become adults, we may realize that we don't agree with certain parenting techniques used by our parents, teachers etc..and start recognizing actual unfair tactics or whatever, one must get past these and learn and grow from them...good luck in your studies.
She might just fantasize about that kinda of stuff, you know fetishes? What might have causes that....she could have been abused sexually when she was little or seen something that has been abused like that.
Hope i helped
The shy and quiet, you have to watch out for.
That's my opinion. I use to date a high school guy that was to me shy and quiet for the most part. We didn't last.
There's got to be a reason why she is fantasying about her teacher. Is she physical attracted to him??