Is it normal..?!
Question: A really good friend of mine says shes only attracted to guys that are in their 30's.. her being 16
what do i tell her?
Is this normal?!
Answers: A really good friend of mine says shes only attracted to guys that are in their 30's.. her being 16
what do i tell her?
Is this normal?!
A lot of younger women are attracted to older men, but that young...even if it's "normal," it could cause problems, as a sexual relationship with a man that age would be illegal.
I would look into books regarding self-psychology or object-relations theory. She may have issues stemming from her relationship with her father.
Or, she might just like older men.
Just ask her the questions that come to your mind, and go with your gut. You know your friend, and I obviously don't. If you have an immediate gut response that something about your friend's preferences are a little off, they probably are. Talk to her about how you feel, and see what she has to say. If she mentions anything worrisome, I would probably let an adult know.
Yea it is normal maybe they can give her something more then a boy her age can give her.
Has she been abused in her past? She has nothing in common with a 30 year old. Maybe she's just trying to be cool.
maybe she realizes the guys her age arew immature.
she wants maturity in a man. That's normal.
Yet i've met immature men in their 30s. It really doesn't matter their age. It's an individual thing.
These guys are to old for her. They could get into serious trouble because she's under 18 years old. Tell her to date people her own age.
She needs to stick to guys her own age. The men in their 30's are sick if they get involved with a teenager.
she has daddy issues , if you tell her anything to do she will want you j/k but not about dad issues 30-16 he has atleat 14 years experience than you ,any thirty year old that wants a 16 year ol not much, doesnt have much to offer ,has issues himself,borderline illegal if not ,wouldnt she like to be with someone that hasnt been wit ha lot more people than her i dont know but , do what you got to the if she doesnt listen get the hell away from her
She still young and that might be also cus of tv celebs etc.. but once she matures she might change her mind and see that she will have more fun with people her age
Sounds like to me she is interested in having a boyfriend in prison. Because that's where he'll end up if he gets involved with her.
sometimes lt is normal for young girls to fall for older men. lts never unheard of
although in a perfect world a 16 year old wants to date and hang out with people their own age. but in the real world i don't think it's a question of normal or not. it's just what she likes. I'm not saying it's OK or not OK. and making the right choices comes from learning and observing those around us
I would not question how normal this is, but how very dangerous it can be for her. Either it is because of something having to do with a father figure, or it is because a grwon man in his 30's gave her so much attention that she felt special.
To me, she is easy prey for a man who mioght be lonely and likes underaged girls.
i hope to god she is not meeting them on the internet .