How long should i promise to stay alive?!
Question: i have promised to my friend that i won't commit suicide before next monday
and i promised that i would talk to her about it on monday and see i the promise needs extending
im having a hard time at the moment because my auntie has died and i keep breaking down
also i haven't been able to talk about this to anyone but my friend
how long do you think i should keep living for?
and do you think i should risk breaking down to try and talk to anyone?
Answers: i have promised to my friend that i won't commit suicide before next monday
and i promised that i would talk to her about it on monday and see i the promise needs extending
im having a hard time at the moment because my auntie has died and i keep breaking down
also i haven't been able to talk about this to anyone but my friend
how long do you think i should keep living for?
and do you think i should risk breaking down to try and talk to anyone?
Their is nothing wrong with breaking down in front of someone. It is definitely worth the risk of breaking down and telling someone how your feeling. It will make you feel better getting all your problems of your chest. You should keep living for the rest of your life and do everything you can to make you self feel better like talking to people. Also talk to your Doctor as well and a therapist who can help you deal with feelings.
I have been using this alternative therapy called Emotional Freedom Technique on my anxiety and depression which has helped me a lot. It's very good at getting rid of all kinds of negative emotions and dealing with all kinds of issues quickly. It does sound crazy but does work. It might be something that can help you.Try some of the techniques from the third link.
Get professional help if things are that bad.
Um forever. Life is a pain in the ***, but that doesn't mean it's not worth living for the good moments. You need to go to a counselor or a therapist and talk the issues out so you can start progressing forward with your life and move past the negative.
Talk to people - it's the only way, and it isn't as hard as you might think and it feels much better once other people know.
talking to someone is worth the risk of breaking down and it actually makes u feel better, dont commit suicide, imagine how your family would miiss you they would feel terrible, its such a selfish thing to do, u should talk to someone to get a perspective on things, u can email me if u need someone to talk to, if u want my adress just leave a comment on this question and i will give it to you, everyone needs someone to talk to ya kknow, hope this helped
keep promising the little chunks until you know one way or other. i suppose. if you want to talk do it but not if its just cuz you think you should.
get some help there's lots of grief counselling out there. things will get better breaking downs good let it out will do more harm if you keep it in . Will send some rei Ki to you Hope you feel better soon keep your promise and hang on in there
I don't even know where to start I know I don't know you but i cannot stress how important it is to not give up and keep on living. I can appreciate that your aunt's death must have been terrible for you but loads of other people go through rough times like this. If things are really bad make sure you talk to someone it doesn't matter if you break down, if it's someone understanding they won't judge you at all. Also think about how strong you will be once you get through this and if life is this bad now it will definitely get better. I really hope you feel better soon and please think about what your doing and what it will do to evryone around you like your friend.
u will be alive till u r healthy and u should talk to ur friends to make your pain decrease
Promise me that you won't comitt suicide. Your grief over your Auntie has to be dealt with before you can move on. If there isn't anyone close that you can talk to then perhaps your family Dr. Call a few funeral homes to see if there is anyone you can talk to. If they can't help you they will know someone that can. Life can be hard sometimes but there really is so much to enjoy. You miss your Auntie but I'm sure she would want you to live, to do the things she can't, to enjoy life to the fullest.
JUst take each hour at a time, try to be possitve, I know it is hard but your aunt wouldn't want you to die.I know you have spoken to your friend but, you need to speak to a grief councellor, go and see your doctor, they will point you in the right direction. try to focus on things that you need to do to get trough the day. It is hard and you will get there. give yourself a goal each day, even if it is just getting up out of bed in the morning. Just make sure that you make it to the end of the day without hurting yourself. Keep your chin up.!
Do what u need to do to LIVE, once you're gone theres no coming back, your down right now because of your loss and im so sorry for your loss but u dont like the way ur feeling now do u? therefore u wouldnt want to inflict the pain your feeling onto your friend. get the help u need to get back on track.
i know is easy for me to say but but think about it! a family friend of ours hung herself before christmas and i feel that it was a selfish thing to do i have to walk past her house everyday and remember that she needed help and noone gave it to her its not too late for u, yes ull be relieving your pain but your just putting it on others
so my answer is live till you cant live no more
please find a counselor or support group, a counselor at school, college or anywhere. You need help asasp!!!
There are a lot of support groups om line. and they are good.
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Good luck and God bless you, I can see that you really don't know what suicide does to those that are left behind. My husband committd suicide in March 2006 and my daughter is still really sufering mental help and I have my really bad days, so will your family and friends. You have know idea. It is a permanent answer to a temporary probalem that can be worked out.;;;;;;;;;;;;
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People die. You must get yourself together and LIVE LIVE LIVE. Your aunt died NOT YOU. Do you really think your aunt would want you doing this? NO SHE WOULD NOT. She would hope she has bought you up to be a strong person, for her sake get to grips.
Tomorrow - go to see the doctor. You have a broken heart and you need consolation and advice and maybe some tablets to help you through this terrible time you are going through.
If you do die- what good would it do - just break everyone else's hearts. If you don't do it right, think of all those little children and people who need medical attention who are dying because they are terribly ill and YOU would be taking up the doctors time. When the doctor could be saving them.
You could become and doctor or nurse and SAVE lives.
Hi, so your auntie died, that's unfortunate, people in your life will die, especially as you get older, I lost my mum & dad in 1986 & 1988, mum was 51 and dad was 59. So keep you chin up my dear, go and have some fun with your friend instead of moping about, I'm sure your auntie would have wanted that. good luck, Gary
ps , Think positive, don't break down over a dead auntie, you have your life ahead of you.