I'm so depressed and want to kill myself?!
Question: I work at a supermarket as a cashier and I've been having a lot of problems. Customers have been complaining to my manager that I'm rude and I've gotten suspended 3 times. I had a meeting today with my manager and my union rep. My manager had a paper typed up of all the times I got in trouble starting back in 2003. He read each of the things on the list like I didn't know what they were. I know what the things were, they happened to me, I got in trouble for them. The meeting didn't go well. My union rep said that my boss didn't want to work with me anymore. There's a next step that I'm taking where I have someone from human resources in with me but I really don't even want to go to the meeting. I'm having my aunt come in with me as an advocate to help me understand what they're saying and so I have someone to back me up. I've talked to my parents and a couple friends about all this but I'm still so depressed. I just wish I could do something to make it all end.I hate my job and my life
Answers: I work at a supermarket as a cashier and I've been having a lot of problems. Customers have been complaining to my manager that I'm rude and I've gotten suspended 3 times. I had a meeting today with my manager and my union rep. My manager had a paper typed up of all the times I got in trouble starting back in 2003. He read each of the things on the list like I didn't know what they were. I know what the things were, they happened to me, I got in trouble for them. The meeting didn't go well. My union rep said that my boss didn't want to work with me anymore. There's a next step that I'm taking where I have someone from human resources in with me but I really don't even want to go to the meeting. I'm having my aunt come in with me as an advocate to help me understand what they're saying and so I have someone to back me up. I've talked to my parents and a couple friends about all this but I'm still so depressed. I just wish I could do something to make it all end.I hate my job and my life
i have epilepsi too and i have an anxiety problem i'm going through right now. i know how it feels when you have no hope at all. it sucks and frankly no one deserves to be hurting like you are. if u want to talk i'm online on aim. my screename is TheBTPYoda.
Please look at these websites:
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide
http://www.befrienders.org
That's all the help that I can give.
You sound very overwhelmed right now, but I don't think killing yourself is the answer (though it seems like the easy way out). How old are you?? I don't want to make your problems sound insignificant, but can't you just get another job? Perhaps go to a different supermarket? It's possible that this environment is just negative and stressing you out.
I'm sure there are other things going on for you and the job thing just makes everything worse. Try talking to someone about all of this stuff. We all have situations like this at some point in our lives. You just have to hang in there and know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Things will eventually get better.
Don't kill yourself. A job isn't worth it and you would be closing so many doors -- some you don't even know about yet.
If you know the incidents that happened where you got into problems, can you come up with some ideas of how to avoid similar problems in the future? If so, maybe you could take a list with you to the meeting to show that you are serious about wanting to improve.
And you could always think about leaving a job where you are so unhappy and going out to find a different job that you may like more.
Quit your job. Get some therapy and learn some people skills so that you don't come up against this problem again in the future.
Go out have so fun and forget what people say and do u go to the chat rooms and talk to people so get out some more
Look for another job !!! love yourself because you are special. God made you perfect , gave you life for some reason so don't even think to take it away. Talk with Him,
ask Him what to do , He will tell you. Think positive all the
time. God bless you ,good luck.
i totally know where your comming from, i used to work in the food court of Costco and boy people can sure be mean. i had one women tell my manager that i was rude, and had no right to work at such a prestigious company and that all i was doing was hurting the companies image. my manager knew that i was having problems with my personal life and that about 80% off all complaints are from people that are just in a bad mood, and don't mean it. I would suggest talking to your manager and talking about what the most common problem is seeing what can be done to work it out. but most importantly dont listen to what the customer says there just thinking about themselves and how to get home. ignore them and try to improve your work quality. hope this helps:)
There's a solution that would be much better than killing yourself.... quit your job! Talk to a counselour about these thoughts that you're having~ it helps to get them out rather than keep them all inside! Start a job of something you actually enjoy, fill your life with people and things that make you happy!
~*~*~ It'll get better dear. Don't end your life, please~*~*~*~
You're in my prayers.
That's a pretty stupid reason to kill yourself. You should only kill yourself if you want the sweet, beautiful release that father death brings us all as we rot stinking in the muck. Quite your job and wait a while to see if death is the right choice for you.
hey, i think we've all felt depressed at some point in our lives... i was depressed for 3 years shortly after i turned 10... i thought about killing myself... i had nothing... but i always hung in there... i knew that there had to be something better for me out there... and there was... i just had to find it... i decided i wanted to change, i didnt want to be depressed anymore... i did everything i could to become what i wanted to be... i forced myself to change my attitude, to be happy... and i gradually started to get to where i wanted to be... start taking some action... you don't have to go all out, but just take one step at a time... maybe that's just not the job for you... find one that you would enjoy doing... and change your attitude... the thoughts in your head are bringing you down... think about your problems, but then think about how to fix them... maybe you are making your problems bigger than they seem... keep hanging in there and everything will be fine...
Please don't, i know its bad now but it will get better. Every body needs someone or something.You have to find it.whether its that special guy or a hobby or a pet, it will turn out. turst in the lord god, and everything will be o.k. Pray and go to church.fil your heart with ,ove not hate or lust. peace and love.