Can you please help me with this private matter?!
Question: (serious matter)
(serious matter)
(please dont laugh this is real)
Look this is my story...... i was 7 years old and i met this kid. he was like 11 and we became friends. Then he told me to do nasty stuff to him or else he will beat me up. I was scared and i did it. I shouldent of. OK then 2 months of the same thing and the kid moves away. Years later and im in like 6-8 grade(cant tell excatly) and the same kid comes back. I am scared that he will tell everyone what i did to him. I have been ditching school because im scared. Can anyone please tell me what to do? I wanna tell my parents but i feel emberased. PLease help me
Answers: (serious matter)
(serious matter)
(please dont laugh this is real)
Look this is my story...... i was 7 years old and i met this kid. he was like 11 and we became friends. Then he told me to do nasty stuff to him or else he will beat me up. I was scared and i did it. I shouldent of. OK then 2 months of the same thing and the kid moves away. Years later and im in like 6-8 grade(cant tell excatly) and the same kid comes back. I am scared that he will tell everyone what i did to him. I have been ditching school because im scared. Can anyone please tell me what to do? I wanna tell my parents but i feel emberased. PLease help me
It would be really good idea to tell your parents, but you can also tell somebody at school. What happened to you is sexual assault and this needs to be reported. You don't have nothing to be ashamed of, this was not your fault, you are a victim and you did nothing wrong. Tell somebody as soon as possible and consider counsling.
I know its REALLY hard to tell your parents. But u have to. Thats ur only choice hun. If the kid is really bothering u, u gotta tell someone fast. Thats harrasment.
If you are a guy, then the chances of him telling are slim. If you are a girl, and he tells people, I would just deny it! Don't lose sleep over it hun, I'm sure he wont mention it. ALL of us have done something weird when we were younger that we would defiantly not do now, so don't feel bad.
first of all pray to jesus to save you and,if he comes up too you tell him leave me alone in jesus's name don't be afraid he can be a great help power in jesus name you'll see ,but you should tell him hey I'm older now and wiser so begonedon't be afraid ask christ to help you not be afraid you can do it
Tell your parents but make sure they know how serious you are. Maybe he forgot about it. Or he has grown up a bit and realize how nasty it was and is just as embarrassed as you. Maybe talk to him about it.
You are absolutely right this is serious my freind,but you should definetly tell your parents you should not be embarrased telling them as you were demanded to by him and he would of beaten you up otherwise ,and it is not going to look very cool for him if at school everyone knew he got beaten up by you and you are younger,i know that is not a good thing to say,but i doubt hed want anyone to know that,and he also threatened to beat up a smaller child and no one will like him for that
Hang in there speak to your parents
I know everyones says this and its easier said than done (I know), tell your parents. Prep yourself if you need to, but telling your parents and getting embarrassed will pass over time, but living with this freak dude will probably leave a very unhappy memory for a long time.
So lets say you just caaaaann't do it. Talk to a counsler at school, or a friend, or someone. Just start with someone, and maybe if they know your parents, they can better tell you how to deal with it.
Wow, this is a tough one. My husband had a similar situation, he is almost 30 and just recently told his mother what happened to him. Not to be discouraging, but she did not believe him. I am so mad at her, as much as I am at the person that did it. The thing is, I believe him. Telling someone does not mean telling your parents. It can be anyone you totally feel comfortable telling this to. If you are afraid you REALLY should tell someone. This person is sick and unfortunately this will and can affect you a lot later in life too. Please, do what you have to. But, I doubt this person is going to tell anyone. This person has a sickness that he does not want people to know about. It is probably embarrassing for him too. I wish you the best of luck.