Why do you suppose he called me after I told him not to?!
Question: I waited for him faithfully and patiently for a year and a half while he was locked up in prison.. I was with him before....about 2 weeks ago he cheated on me with a girl "he's known longer than me".. so about last monday I told him to drop me off at my mother's house..on our way over there he kept putting me down with sarcastic remarks, like "I need a girl with a car"...in a sarcastic way.
So when we arrived to our destination...... I chose to have a humble attitude and told him "Thank you.. I appreciate it(for the ride home)"...
he got off the car quick to follow me and said in a soft spoken manner: "I'll give you a phone call".. I replied telling him:" Don't" repeatedly but in an assertive way...
But on Sunday and on Tuesday he's called.. after I told him not to.. why do you think he has done that ?
Answers: I waited for him faithfully and patiently for a year and a half while he was locked up in prison.. I was with him before....about 2 weeks ago he cheated on me with a girl "he's known longer than me".. so about last monday I told him to drop me off at my mother's house..on our way over there he kept putting me down with sarcastic remarks, like "I need a girl with a car"...in a sarcastic way.
So when we arrived to our destination...... I chose to have a humble attitude and told him "Thank you.. I appreciate it(for the ride home)"...
he got off the car quick to follow me and said in a soft spoken manner: "I'll give you a phone call".. I replied telling him:" Don't" repeatedly but in an assertive way...
But on Sunday and on Tuesday he's called.. after I told him not to.. why do you think he has done that ?
He's a control freak.
He probably didn't really treat you right before he went to prison -- and he's proven now that he won't treat you right now. Sorry you wasted your time waiting for him. Don't give him another chance. If he calls again - just say "I asked you not to call any more so please don't call again, I'm going to hang up now." Then just hang up. He'll try to ask you questions -- like do you have a new boyfriend -- but don't answer ANY questions. Just say please don't call again, goodbye.
why do i feel no matter the advice you'll let him manipulate you into going back with him? he'll do the classice turn of the tables and make you feel guilty and justify his actions of cheating etc. he obviously isn't a responsible moral man. you will get nowhere with him. he is out for himself. he only means to please himself. and when somebody turns somebody down it only make them want them more. so when you say don't call he will want you more. push him away more he will desire you more. everyone wants what they can't have. but if i were you i would put you first instead of him. he isn't putting you in front of him. so respect yourself and make a good decision of leaving him at the curb.
Move on, don't be intimidated by him.
You don't need anyone like him in your life.
Be strong don't have anything to do with him. He sounds like trouble, with a capital T.