What type of abuse is this?!


Question: Yells at someone a lot
gets mad and treats others like ****
makes people cry and does not care
always has to be right
Can not be talked to. If you do not agree he gets mad.
If he wanted you to call someone and you got the number wrong he acts like your stupid. He ask's "you can't make a phone call"?
Is this abuse? and what kind?


Answers: Yells at someone a lot
gets mad and treats others like ****
makes people cry and does not care
always has to be right
Can not be talked to. If you do not agree he gets mad.
If he wanted you to call someone and you got the number wrong he acts like your stupid. He ask's "you can't make a phone call"?
Is this abuse? and what kind?

As others have indicated this is verbal or emotional abuse. The important thing for you to understand is that it often leads to physical abuse. The purpose of the emotional abuse is to destroy the person's self esteem and to isolate them.

A person who has low self esteem and is isolated is likely to feel trapped like there is no way out. In my ministry, I often hear statements like "no one else would want me, where would I go, I couldn't take care of myself, etc." These are all signs that the abuse is working.

Also, please watch out for the abuse cycle. That happens when the abuser pushes too far and then apologizes. The combination of abuse and apology keeps the cycle escalating as I said often to the point of physical abuse.

It sounds like you are talking about a parent (the comment on homework). I have lived in that type of situation. It is more difficult to get out of as you are dependent on your parents.

However, you don't need to take that sort of abuse. You need to talk to someone about what is happening. This can be a pastor (not fundamentalist as they may tell you to obey your father or boyfriend), a trusted teacher at school, a friend's parents, etc.

I would warn that if you talk to someone, under most state laws they are required to tell the police. Not even a pastor (I am in Nebraska) has the right to hold this information in pastoral confidence. However, the laws are fuzzier when it comes to verbal abuse (sexual abuse and physical abuse are very clear).

Pastor John

emotional abuse

Emotional abuse. Don't let anyone treat you or your loved ones this way.

Emotional abuse.

Anger management/ medication

Clearly emotional abuse. Get away from this person and urge them to get help.

i would say sheer cruelty. but who ever your in contact with. i would give him plenty off space. about a thousand miles.

I hope your not with him!!!! Sounds like a spoiled, immature #@$#$ !!!!! I took alot of crap from a lover once for 3 years and thought I couldn't live without him. You can!!!!! Sounds like a momma's boy to me who always got his way!! Take some good advice.....get out now!!!!!!

Robin

HE IS EVIL

First of all who is doing this? Second is that all?
Third if that is all it's emotional abuse or some kind of harrasment.

This sounds like Intimidation/emotional abuse. Along with verbal abuse. For this person to feel better about themselves they have to belittle everyone else. They definately need counseling.

This is called emotional abuse and it is something that I suffered from my entire life from my mother and father. Take my word for it, keep your distance from this person or learn how to detach mentally and emotionally from him (don't let his words matter to you) or it will affect you emotionally for the rest of your life. Change your attitude towards him and say to yourself "HIS WORDS DON'T MATTER TO ME." Its the only way to overcome the anger and pain you feel inside.

Verbal and emotional abuse.

Get connected with God and live a normal and peaceful life. Jesus come to Jesus with genuine repentance and faith, and you will find love, joy, hope for your life.

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