Help! my sister is going to tell my mom I cut myself?!
Question: Today she saw some cuts on my tummy and asked me what happened. I lied and she knew. She said if she see's one more cut she is telling. She is 25 I'm 19. how do I stop her?
Answers: Today she saw some cuts on my tummy and asked me what happened. I lied and she knew. She said if she see's one more cut she is telling. She is 25 I'm 19. how do I stop her?
Roundhouse kick her in the face and run away.
You stop cutting yourself
i doubt anyone who says tummy cuts themselves....but yea just stop doing it
you can stop her really easily by doing one easy thing.....STOP DOING IT!!!!
She's only trying to help you & its for your own good!
Stop cutting. Beg her not to tell.
you know she's doing the right thing
Sounds to me like you would be much better off if she DID tell. Maybe you will get the help you need then.
I think your sister need to tell your mom. She is just trying to help you. Be thankful you have a sister that cares so much about your well-being.
Deep down you want her to tell your mom or you wouldn't have let her see the cuts. There has to be a reason you're cutting yourself, and if you don't get help it'll never stop - you don't want that, do you? Tell your mom yourself & ask for help - you know you want to - just do it!
Get some help--You tell your mom or someone first!
you stop cutting ....you obviously need to talk to someone about what is going on in your life...if you don't talk to your mother... then seek a professional....your sister is doing what's best for you ..if you are cutting....it will only get worse if you don't stop...not better
what would happen if you get a serious infection or something else .......a staph infection resistant to antibiotics is growing like crazy everywhere throughout the country
Hide your cuts and try to make her forget about it. Tell her you fell on your stomach and got cuts,That's what I do.
And why must this be kept a secret? Do you think cutting yourself will just cease to be something you do someday without help from anyone else?
She's doing the right thing, cutting yourself is dangerous and unhealthy. You should stop cutting yourself, and if you can't, you definitely need to tell your mom and seek professional help. I know it's hard, but you have to come to realize what you're doing isn't going to help and won't get you anywhere. I got so mad at my mom and step-dad once, I ran to my room, locked my door, broke a cd, and cut my arm up with it. It was just an impulse, and afterwards, I knew that I had to talk to somebody before it got out of hand. I called an anonymous advice/help hot line for teens and I talked to somebody and it helped me out. She told me I should find alternative outlets that helps me vent, and I turned to music. Now, when I get mad, I go play piano and guitar, and I play very well. I wish you well?
Be thankful that she will out you! You need to quit that sh!t. Let her help you before you scar your body to only regret it as an adult-and you will. Someone needs to help you. Welcome this gift. Someone upstairs made this happen so that you CAN get the help you need. For crying out loud, you're 19! Your whole life will forever be tarnished with the fact you cut. The scars won't just disappear and you'll have to live with that for the rest of your days. Think about being a grandmother some day, on a hot day, and your grandkids ask you what those lines are on your skin for! Can you live with that idea? Be good to yourself.
you don't. but even if you do find a way to stop her, always prepare yourself. i am 15 and i've been cutting for almost 4 years, i wrote my mother a letter about why i cut because the pain of telling her i hurt myself was to much to bare. cutting is only a way of coping. when i did it i felt like i was doing it to set aside my problems, i felt like all of my issues were to stressful to deal with, so i cut to forget about them. Because when you're doing it your mind is not on whatever stresses you out. so try not to set you problems aside, deal with them.
Your mom needs to know whats going! your sister is looking out for you. Say your mom or sis was doing this you would be concerned too.You all need to talk about it.
Sweetheart, as a mother, I would want someone to tell me if my kid is hurting themself. Are you ashamed of what you are doing to yourself? If not, then you shouldn't worry about your sister or mother's opinion. You can not control the actions of your sister and anybody else's action. Just like your sister can't stop you from cutting yourself. Are you trying to relieve yourself from pain?
It is obvious that you have hurt yourself before and that is why your sis knew you were lying.. Nothing good comes from a cover up...
how did she see them?
and if ur 19 what can ur mum do anywayz?
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you dont it good if she tells because she cares about you
i do it alot
tell her it is not a regular thing and you just tried it. tell her you will never do it again and it is not serious. basically convince her not to tell your mother by making it out to be nothing.or if she does tell ur mom its a lie and that your sister is being childish.
stop cutting yourself!! shes doing you a favor
I am a cutter, too. I started four or five years ago. My sister found out when I was at my psychiatrist's office and she was with me. Now, my psychiatrist and my therapist both know that I do cut myself, but don't know when I'll do it. My psychiatrist said that if I do, she'll send me to the hospital. Can you talk to your mom yourself and be honest with her? Maybe the two of you can get you some help together. Are you on medications? Sometimes medications can give you a bad reaction. I'll be praying for you.
I think you should tell your mom yourself and ask for help. It's easier on her and you if you tell her than if your sister drops the bomb on her. Explain to your mom that you need to talk to a counselor, so you can stop hurting yourself.