My son is suicidal!!!?!
Question: Well my son, Anthony, has really been depressed latey and he's only 11 years old. He's also been acting up lately, beating up his girlfriend, killing pigeons, and worshiping the devil. He used to be a great kid, an A+ student, but ever since his father was killed by the mafia, he just hasn't been the same. What should I do?
Answers: Well my son, Anthony, has really been depressed latey and he's only 11 years old. He's also been acting up lately, beating up his girlfriend, killing pigeons, and worshiping the devil. He used to be a great kid, an A+ student, but ever since his father was killed by the mafia, he just hasn't been the same. What should I do?
first of all im sorry to hear about your husband..what i believe is your son is not dealing with the loss of your husband and needs to vent his anger and deal with it before life gets worst..like drugs or acholol..you didnt say when the death happened..but i believe he needs serious help or commited til he can deal..or both of your lifes will never be the same again....also never let a dr tell you what is wrong with your child in front of him..or make decisions in front of your child its kinda like a prophecy..ask your son to draw pictures of what life use to be as a whole family and what the family pic looks like now..no matter what age if you approach it right you can learn from him..if he is in to devil worship have him draw a pic of that..maybe hes just showing what kind of art he can do..the anger he showed toward his girl will get worst if he does not learn to deal with anger maybe try karate or some other sport..good luck
He is 11 with a girlfriend wow, I would seek help for him before it gets worse! If it were my sons I have three I would NOT let it get worse. He needs help hon, I hope all works out
Me sense a troll.
Go to a therapist
do SOMETHING
good luck
what the #%!&
The first thing you should do if you think he is suicidal, call a crisis hotline or take him to the emergency room. They both can help. Get him evaluated, it is not ok the things that are going on. If he is killing animals and beating up a girl he needs to be evaluated, get into counseling, and or possibley be on medication. Do Not Ignore these thing, HE NEEDS HELP ASAP!
If you are being serious, he needs help immediately. Take your son to the local ER/crisis center and let them know of his behavior. A helpline: 1-800-SUICIDE
Make an appointment with a therapist. It is a very serious situation, and your son needs a lot of help fast! If you can't afford a psychologist, research the community clinics in your neighborhood. Those are funded by the local government, and you may be eligible for low cost counseling. Also talk to his doctor about a referral to a psychiatrist.
Your son is repressing his anger he does not know how to deal with his dad dying.You should try to explain to him that sometimes these things happen,I know it will be hard but you have to let him know that it is OK to feel anger but he must not blame himself.I do not agree with him hurting another human being.The thing with killing the birds is not actually cos he wants 2 it is his way of getting back at the men who to OK his dad away.I hope things turn out ok for you good luck.
well...it seems as if he probably has schizophrenia or something like that. you need to take him to a psych ward NOW.
they will probably put him under suicide watch for 72 hours. yes, i wouldn't doubt that it will be painful for you to know that your son needs that amount of help...but he's a threat to himself, and obviously to you and the rest of the world. you need to take him NOW. he will be screened for certain mental disorders, maybe even a CT scan on his brain....if i am right about his actions relating to schizophrenia, sometimes it could be a brain tumor rather than a mental disorder if someone has symptoms of a severe problem. he will receive treatment during the time he is there and most likely therapy after he is out. if you haven't already, please talk to his girlfriends parents about what he had done to their daughter....he needs to be admitted to the psych ward NOW. or just call 911. explain to the operator your situation and you want to get him help right away because you are afraid he will do something more drastic. good luck. just be strong. get him help now!
if this is a serious question he needs help...now
The only thing you left out was an old gypsy's curse...
Perhaps cutting out one or two of the less believable parts will garner the answers you're looking for. Although judging from the outpouring above me, you seem to have done just fine. Congrats.
this is a joke people!
have him get therepy. My mom makes me get therepy. I am kind of sucidal.(tht sounds worse than it rele is lol) i'm 13. Getting conceling/therepy helps becasue its one person i feel like i can just talk 2 without them judging me. Maybe your son will open up. Although i'm a girl and I think girls open up more to talking better than boys but idk maybe it'll help.
Good Luck
(i always feel better after a therepy session)
First of all, you need to discipline him for hitting a girl. Depression does not subvert the values and moral that you should be teaching him. Stop being a lazy parent and maybe spend some time with him. That is my politically correct advise and how I would advise you if it were my job
My personal beliefs on the other hand would dictate that my son would be hit until he learned to respect women and to not hit them. How does he kill pigeons? Maybe you should take him to a hunting class or learn to shoot so he can learn some respect for others. Obviously this is a family with problems that run deeper than this kid because if your family was structure in any coherent form you would have allowed him to grow up religious and when he was old enough you could let him decide the role of religion in his life.
I know this is a joke bc of the mafia thing, but I hope one day this happens to you kid and you have to deal with it cause this kid is dead withing 2 years because he was not given any of the essentials like mental toughness, faith, reverence, respect or any coping mechanisms that would allow him to be able to live a healthy and life. karma is a *****
Don't joke around about mental illness. It's not funny!