I cry about everything and anything. HELP!?!


Question: I am 14 year old, and I'm not unsocial or depressed or emo or anything like that.
I go to private school, get good grades, have a lot of friends, i play a lot of sports, and I am all around a happy person.


Heres the deal...
I find myself crying at everything and anything in my life.
I cry litterally every day, I don't think there has been one day in the last year where I haven't cried at all.
Okay there probably have been a few...

But still. It's the stupidest thing's too...
I cry during comercials, sad stories, sad music videos, sad songs, sad movies, you name it.
Like one time I was listening to the song, "Right Here" by Miley Cyrus and I started bawling because I felt like no one was "Right Here" for me =(

And now, I feel stupid.

I cry when I feel like someone doesn't like me.
I cry when I see people cry.
I cry when people are unintentionally mean.
& When people try to comfort me, I cry MORE!


Answers: I am 14 year old, and I'm not unsocial or depressed or emo or anything like that.
I go to private school, get good grades, have a lot of friends, i play a lot of sports, and I am all around a happy person.


Heres the deal...
I find myself crying at everything and anything in my life.
I cry litterally every day, I don't think there has been one day in the last year where I haven't cried at all.
Okay there probably have been a few...

But still. It's the stupidest thing's too...
I cry during comercials, sad stories, sad music videos, sad songs, sad movies, you name it.
Like one time I was listening to the song, "Right Here" by Miley Cyrus and I started bawling because I felt like no one was "Right Here" for me =(

And now, I feel stupid.

I cry when I feel like someone doesn't like me.
I cry when I see people cry.
I cry when people are unintentionally mean.
& When people try to comfort me, I cry MORE!

i dont think anything is wrong with u. ur jus probably overly too sensitive. i mean u do sound like a normal 14 yr old girl

Oh!Dont worry crying is normal but you shouldnt cry at everything.Look,if this helps try thinking of something that makes you happy or even someone that makes you happy.

well honey im not sure but i think it might be a part of growing up becuase everyone goes through it differently.
i know you probly dont want to but you should see a school counseler or a doctor to find out what the problem is.
or mabey even talk to your mum if you feel comfortable about that.
it could be depression even though you dont think so.
i really hope everything is ok.
good luck!
xx

Don't worry, I practically felt this way (and I'm a guy too) during my teenage years. It's the hormones and rapid change that is making you feel a depressed. Yes, I was a loner, a loser, the scum of the earth but I pulled through and so can you. Sad movies are ment for shedding a few tears, dont hide your feelings.

There is nothing wrong about being emotional. Who likes a person who has as much feelings as a rock? There is somthing for all of us in the future.

Ah yes, teenage years...What a pain in the ***. You'll get through. Be strong, eat well, and good luck.

It sounds like you may be experiencing hormonal fluctuations. If you older or it hadn't been going on so long I would wonder if you were pregnant. You may also be "feeling" other peoples pain too much. You not only know and understand their pain, but you actually feel it. However, this should ease up eventually. I can still tear up occasionally and I'm 41. If not, have your parents take you to the doctor to see how everything is.

My wife admits to being like this when she was younger, even when I first met her she would cry over commercials and tv shows and stuff. She stopped by simply making it a real effort, when she felt the tears coming on she would try her best to 'will' them away, she also started avoiding some of the more sappy 'tear-jerker' type things that are just designed to make people cry. Another thing she would do is write poetry when she's feeling emotional. I haven't seen her cry in sometime and I know she's proud of herself and the effort she made. It just takes some extra self-control, if you are committed to holding back the tears you can, and eventually you won't feel the need to cry as much. You're not abnormal though, its just something you've gotten used to, and its a habit you can break.

You need to hang out with your friends and do something exhilarating. I guess you can start small. Brainstorm something close to your houses. Basically you have to force yourself to live.





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