Have you ever cried for no reason?!
Question: Or felt as if life to you was only half-glass full?
What about the odd and irracional feeling of having your heart rejected by your own mate?
Or feeling just alone, cold, and hurt?
What's going on?
I have people that love me and care about me, but I can't help but feel bitter about myself... Like I'll never be good enough for anyone...
I don't know what's going on...
I just want to be the perfect daughter, girlfriend, sister...
And I feel like I can't.
Answers: Or felt as if life to you was only half-glass full?
What about the odd and irracional feeling of having your heart rejected by your own mate?
Or feeling just alone, cold, and hurt?
What's going on?
I have people that love me and care about me, but I can't help but feel bitter about myself... Like I'll never be good enough for anyone...
I don't know what's going on...
I just want to be the perfect daughter, girlfriend, sister...
And I feel like I can't.
You might be reliving old memories and hanging on to them to punish yourself and live in the past. That's hindering you from being in the present and just doing the next thing in front of you. Let go of the past and work on the best person you can be today. Don't blame yourself for past experiences because you can't fix it,right? Let go....cry if you need to,hug yourself,LOVE yourself and if you need to get out a picture of you when you were younger and talk to her and take care of her. It will totally help heal your inner child if you had some abandonment issues when you were younger. I hope I helped and wasn't way off or out of line. I've been where you are,that's all.
we are like looking into a mirror right now...i feel everything u just said
Last week, i woke up at 4 am and started crying for no reason. I think it's just the stress of life. Ask your boyfriend what he would do for you, and think about all the possibilities in your life. Think positively and talk about how you feel more, get it out in the open
when your body cant handle a certain amount of stress it relieves it by crying
Oh Sweetie this made me really sad! You seem to have really low self estime. You have people who care about you and you're probably a lovely person so try not to strive to be perfect, just be happy. Allow yourself to make mistakes and to live life to the full without needing to please everyone else. Please talk to your family about how you're feeling cos I'm sure they'd hate to hear you're so down. Take care. X
Wow you sound just like me. It truly sucks feeling like this. What I do is I just keep beleving thatI I am going to be okay eventualy. When you say your heart is being rejected by your mate. What do you truly mean.? Is he the one that is making you feel alone, cold alone and hurt? If he is the one make him not part of your life. Why do you feel bitter about your self.? Your self is the best part of you. Find things that help you feel good about Y0U. I know its hard but dig deep. You will find the answers. Good Luck and please feel good about you. It will come.
I don't think we cry for no reason.
There is a reason. We just might not know what it is at the time.
Sometimes we push ourselves to be "perfect" to a standard that we would never expect someone else to live up to.
Treat yourself with the same love and kindness that you would treat your bestfriend.
It's okay to cry. Crying releases chemicals and stress that our body needs to let go of.
Sometimes thoughts go into my head really quickly...then all of a sudden tears come out of my eyes! Yes, I have alot of bad memories and cannot let them go. They just come back no matter what. If you sleep in your bed sometimes its great to be in it, but thats the worse place! Dreams, memories, and thoughts go into your head and I mean it. You think of serval things in bed. I always thought of my memories and some of them weren;t so nice to think about. I hope you have a special place because I have one and that it where I set all my bad memories away and get good ones
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Wow.. the quest for perfection is a tricky one indeed.
my question to you is this;-
what is the perfect daughter, girlfriend, sister e.t.c and who decided what fits that bill.
The truth of the matter is that you're perfect just the way you are, and so it then follows that being yourself no matter what is the only true perfection, when you start tampering with universal laws and building invisible prison for your mind so that you can fit into someone's warped concept of perfection, you kill yourself a little everyday and oneday, someday, the universe will give you a spanking that you'll wish you'd never subscribed to.
You, at your very core are pure perfection. If you truly want to be perfect, return to yourself, follow your heart's desires no matter what, live not your life for perfection in the eyes of men, but for perfection as the universe intended. The blueprint for that is in your heart... The distraction from your heart is the eyes of man. Beware the eyes of man, and leave from your heart, following your heart's desire at evry turn.
It takes courage and faith and an undying desire for truth so start practising, no one said it was going to be easy...
Yeah, I have. I have felt like everything was spiraling down and I was dissapointing everyone around me. But you know what? You don' t have to be perfect. No one is. Everyone around you loves you and cares about you and you need to open your eyes a little more. Make a list of all the things good in your life. I am sure there is much more than you want.
And I guarantee that list also says:
-Great daughter
-Great girlfriend
-Great sister
....And everything else. :)
We all get emotional every now and then, i think its normal. I mean we'd have to be machines to not shed a tear, right?
Like you, I have a family and friends that love & care for me but when i think about other things in my life i get sad. Me and my husband have been married for a couple years, were financially stable and we cant get pregnant. Life cant be perfect, I guess we just have to learn to deal with it and take it a day at a time.
* Oh, and Dont ever put yourself down like that, you seem like a descent person, and anybody would be lucky to know you.