How do you get more confident in you self?!
Question: i am a bit shy in school ok outside but sometimes really shy and i cant look at people when i talk to them unless its one of my two best friends
Answers: i am a bit shy in school ok outside but sometimes really shy and i cant look at people when i talk to them unless its one of my two best friends
I have the same problem. I get really embarrassed when people look at me. Try looking at their nose in between their eyes, so you don't have to look them in the eye. Just a little tip my teacher taught me in year 6, although it never really seemed to make a difference to me..
Pretend everybody is your best friend when you talk to everyone else. Whatever you would do in front of your best friends do in front of other people.
i'm like that too. try doing spontaneous things that are totally out of character and it wows people. it makes you feel more confident too. Good luck!
Yeah I have a bit of the same problem. I solved that by imagining they will morph into Chuck Norris any second now. Or you could approach people with your friends, then they will also be looking at that person and eventually you'll grow into it. This works alot better than the Chuck Norris thing.
do you believe in your self?well the answer better be yes.
wake up everyday and declare in your life that;i am confident and secure and believe in me as a person that can do everything that i put my self to do and to be.
do that everyday that you wake up in front of your mirror and at the and of the day week or month you will see a different person in you.just try it,success
Go to a library or go buy the book:
The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale.
It will change your life Lorna!
Good luck to you.
There are three steps may help you get out of shyness trap.
First, describe your shyness.
Second, think about the reasons why you are shy.
Third, think about a solution to each reason.
Let me illustrate one example.
You feel nervous (your hands sweat, your body shakes, dare not to look at the audiences) when you go to the stage for a presentation.
After thinking a while you come out with reasons and solutions like this:
Reason #1: You're afraid others will reject your offers.
Solutions #1:
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(a) Prepare your presentation carefully.
(b) Have clear purpose for your presentation.
(c) Have confidence in yourself.
(d) Have confidence in your offers.
Reason #2: You're afraid that you make some mistakes when you make presentation.
Solution #2:
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(a) Think like: