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Question: i think ive been abused but its sorta my fault. i feel bad becuase i ruined everyones life. theres one woman in my life who is like a mentor to me but im afraid she hates me so how do i approach her and talk to her? im feeling sorta hopeless about stuff and im starting to hate things i love. do i need to go to a councelor or something?? i really dont want to. please help if u can-only serious answers please!


Answers: i think ive been abused but its sorta my fault. i feel bad becuase i ruined everyones life. theres one woman in my life who is like a mentor to me but im afraid she hates me so how do i approach her and talk to her? im feeling sorta hopeless about stuff and im starting to hate things i love. do i need to go to a councelor or something?? i really dont want to. please help if u can-only serious answers please!

Most people that suffer any form of abuse feel that it's their fault. That's normal. The point is, it's not your fault. If someone would go to the lengths to hurt or take advantage of another person in any harmful way, it's their fault that they are a crappy individual and would do that. You are a human being. Therefore, no matter what you do or who anyone thinks you are, you deserve respect, just like anyone else. You need to see a counselor, or even better, a therapist. You need to talk about your situation and get un-biased feedback so that you can learn and see that abuse is never the person suffering's fault. You also need to get it out of your system before it affects you in worse ways. It's already obviously affecting you negatively because you think you have a fault in this. Go "out" this situation so you can heal. Best of luck :)

say sorry and if she just walks away or something scream out loud "sorry"she has to forgive u some day

How is it your fault that you have been abused. There is nothing bad enough that you can do to make abuse "okay" I am sure you did not ruin everyone's life. It sounds like you are seriously depressed. You should talk with your mentor as well as a counselor to see about therapy and anti-depressants.

This happens when you are deprssed. What you once loved you start to hate and be annoyed at. Sometimes its just stress of the things that are happening in your life. You need to go to a doctor and tell them how you are feeling! They will go from there. But I know that they gave me pills for anxiety. Maybe relax and let things cool down a bit. Try and find a hobby that gets your mind off of things, the time will come when you will face your issues with those people becuase they might still be upset for whatever you did or vice versa!

You need help go talk to someone a Doctor if not a councelor maybe someone need to be reported if you realy belive you were abused wether or not it was your fault that dont count whos fault it is you are still the vitum.tell somebody who tou know will listen.tell the lady mentor she will not hate you I belive she will get you the help you need.good luck.





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