Are you "scared" to sleepover at peoples houses?!


Question: this sounds weird...
but im 14
and havent slept anythere sence i was 10 1/2 years old.

i dont really have a reason, i just think its a comfort factor.

i am not scared, but its hard to explain that to my friends because they think im actually scared to sleep over when its honestly a comfort thing. do you get what i mean?

i think it might be phscological, because it happened right after summer camp, which i hated. they wouldnt let me call my parents etc...

but i dont knw.

ie even like tried to sleep over places but i end up having my parents pick me up...

anyone else like this??!


Answers: this sounds weird...
but im 14
and havent slept anythere sence i was 10 1/2 years old.

i dont really have a reason, i just think its a comfort factor.

i am not scared, but its hard to explain that to my friends because they think im actually scared to sleep over when its honestly a comfort thing. do you get what i mean?

i think it might be phscological, because it happened right after summer camp, which i hated. they wouldnt let me call my parents etc...

but i dont knw.

ie even like tried to sleep over places but i end up having my parents pick me up...

anyone else like this??!

Yes. I was the same way when I was younger. I NEVER wanted to sleep over anywhere. If my friend was having a sleepover party, I would go for the party part and then just have my mom pick me up. I know exactly what you mean. It's ok if you're just more comfortable sleeping at home! It really isn't a problem unless you are unhappy being unable to sleepover. If you would like to work on it, maybe you could talk to someone about it, but I think you're just fine! I'm an adult now and I went away to college, got married etc.. no problems! :-)

yes, a couple of my friends are like this. im kinda like that but not totally. i spend the night, but wake up at 6am and leave. its really awkward to b there, so i just leave.

I do !
i just cant sleep at anyones house,i dont feel safe sleeping and i just dont feel right i havent slept in anyones house since i was like freaking 8 seriously i just cant id rather sleep at home, because like they say theres no place like home,its my place to sleep i like get home sick and i usually cant fall asleep i dint even go camping or to Field trips with the school if their gonna be involved with being away from home for more then 1 day and sleeping elsewhere,,,its okay some people just aren't like others that are okay with sleeping over anyones house or hotel or friends house.I totally understand what your talking about,and i agree its no problem really,some people are just different:]I hate when people like my uncles or cousins or friends ask me to spend the night or anything like that i dont want to tell them cuz they'll think that i dotn trust them but its just the way i am.

The sleeping part never bothered me but waking up in unfamiliar territory with people u dont normally share mornings, bathrooms and breakfast with can be a little weird. If you get the chance try it when theres going to be a few other friends too. That will take the pressure off and you wont be the only "outsider" in the morning. Remember, the host family is probably just as nervous hoping dad doesn't let one rip on the way to the toilet or you see his mom or sis without makeup etc etc. Relax and enjoy the adventure.

Seems like your too attached to home, I know there's no place like home but sometimes home is not a place to be. One thing about another person's house you might be right about is that you never know what's under somebody else's bed the Boogeyman or a sack of porn lol





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