Is there any point in living?!


Question: hi my life is relly bad i ave no friends at school i all ways get bulled i can't sleep a night becuse of this, what shall i do cometing sucide or to stay alive.


Answers: hi my life is relly bad i ave no friends at school i all ways get bulled i can't sleep a night becuse of this, what shall i do cometing sucide or to stay alive.

i completely understand why you feel this way. Don't commit suicide. email me if you want to just spill everything out to someone.Alot of times it helps to just talk to someone. Everything will be ok. I am a mommy so I know how I feel when my kids say they are being bullied. It tears my heart out for you and anyone else that is going through this.I think everyone has been bullied at one time or another. Some are just bullied alot more than others.

its not your call !!

I was bullied and miserable at school too -hang on in there there are good things in life too - you just need to wait and be patient

You should choose life because two - thirds of the world's popultion would kill for a life as good as yours (although you take it for granted). You have the choice of whether to live or die. Many people in the world do not have that luxury.

Sweetie, things are never as bad as they seem.

Bullying can be tackled by reporting them, fighting them, or just plain ridiculing them.

And we all go through a stage in our lives when we think we have no friends. But when the chips are down, your real friends are there.

Talk with family members, to get things in perspective. Life is wonderful, and it is up to you to make it what you want. Don't let others take that control away from you.

I too was bullied in school, and that the world had come to an end for me. But the bullies are sad gits who have terrible lives, and want to make everyone as miserable as themselves. Feel sorry for them, or laugh them off. You have your whole life ahead of you, so many wonderful things to do and see, don't let these negative feelings spoil what you have and all the things to come.

If things are really bad for you right now, call the Samaritans, or go see your GP. You could be suffering from depression or something. Reach out for help, and things will definitely improve.

Take care.

xx

aw, poor you. have a big hug and try not to worry. don't let ignorant tw@ts at school get you down. i had a hard time at school too, i just never seemed to fit in but i'm still about to tell the tale, and i left that hell-hole 20 years ago.
life does get better, but for now i'm sorry but things just won't seem that way.
keep going son, it's not forever x

Hey Babes
I know how you're feeling, depression sucks, but I can advise you deeply that suicide isn't the answer.
I've been there before, feeling suicicdal and self-harming etc, but int he long run it doens't do anything.
People can give you as much advice as you like, but deep down you know it's not going to make a difference.
Try and think of something that makes you happy, even if it's not much,and just throw yourself into that. I liked arts and drawing etc when I was feeling low, and by throwing myself into that it felt as if I could stress out my emotions and in a way it helped. What about music too? It can help in soothing things.
I'd also advise it if you spoke to someone. I know it's really hard and possibly you see it as the worst case scenario, but trust me, even if it's one person, a parent/relative, doesn't have to be a Doctor, it DOES help. It immediately takes so much of your mind trust me babe. If you like see a Doctor or someone, that could be the best way forward, you just need to take that tiny step (that may feel HUGE) but trust me babes it's better when you do it.
Message me if you like
xx

this will sound spiteful, but i assure you it isnt.
Are you in famine? a refugee? living with cancer or a disease? in Kosovo or Zimbabwe? 99% of bullying ends by year 10. I do no know how old you are, would you like to let us know? also male or female? Go online and you can find people who are in the same situation as you. keep in there pal, all the buggers leave you when you finish school if they havent before anyway:)
peace out

I would suggest seeking professional help. From the way the question was worded I'm going to guess that your relatively young. Try to remember things change. It's probably hard to even grasp that thought at this poing, but taking your own life now would be selling yourself short. There are so many things to experience in life. In 10 years will it matter that you didn't have friends at school? It sure wont. Try and find things that improve your mood. What do you like to do? Set aside a specified time during the day or week that you do this "thing". Suicide really has no place in your considerations. There are too many other avenues to take before one so final. You cant take it back.

first of all being bullied is against the law go to tell your master secondly try to join a club ie: wing chung a type of marshall art ,try athletics, or anything to keep youon the go once you have acheived something like this life should become better good luck regards

theres lots u can do. move if u want to and start over

Sweetie, school is not life. I know it seems bad now but honestly once you've left you'll not be AT ALL concerned with what happened there. Is these anything you can do to make your time at school more enjoyable eg joining clubs or doing activities? Your time there will be over before you know it and you'll never have to look back. If things are that bad have you considered asking your parents if you can change schools? If they knew you were feeling this bad I'm sure they'd want to do what they could to help.
PS- Ignore all the ignorant pigs who don't understand that just cos you're not in famine or dying, doesn't mean you don't have a right to be unhappy.
Please take care. X

hi you sound like a nice guy dont do that just stay alive maybe move schools and make friends go out more and be part of more activites make friends online your bviously depressed just chill you only have one life so enjoy it and close your eyes and think of things like chocolate,your favourite animal etc. hope i helped you bye and have a great life!!

stay alive school is temporary and once you're out of it everything changes anyway

I've tried (and failed, obviously) suicide four times. Those years were the absolutely worst and darkest times of my life. Through the love from a dog, I was able to hang on to life. I could not promise anyone, but my dog, that I wouldn't take my life. She helped me for twelve years, god bless her. I now have another dog.

If you can find a way to care for some one or thing, your life will not be so overwhelmed with what you don't have, but filled with what you do have.

Good luck, sweetie.

I hope you are not serious. Something tells me you're just putting us on. However, suicide is never the answer. If you're serious, you must see a counselor immediately because you have clinical depression which is no joke.

Belive me you are not the only one to feel like this there are lots of young people out there like you but cannot express themselves, have you tried to talk to someone about these feelings, they will ease up but at the moment it must feel like
nobody cares but you should try and talk to your parents about these feelings,think of the nice things in your life and things will get better

Do something, dude.
Do karate, kendo, jujutsu, aikido, kungfu, fencing DO Something then kick their asses those bastards who bullied ya (just joking) But yeah learn some self defense dont be weak minded. Go work out get some muscle OMFG. If you kill ur self ur a loser man. Those bullies would not be sorry or they will but its irrelevant. The point is you live to become someone who OWNS, so do something and dont get oWNED by those noobs.

BUY A PAIR BOXING GLOVES SHADOW BOX AND WHEN THEM BASTARDS BULLIES COME ON TO YOU THING OF RAMBO AND GIVE ONE OF THEM A GOOD BELTING

I'm glad you asked. Many of us have asked that question in the past but most of us are still here, which says something, doesn't it ?

As you say you cannot sleep at night, this is a good excuse to go and see your doctor. He will understand and be able to help you.

The day will come when you will look back to this time and be glad you didn't do anything silly. Believe me.

About bullying: - If you don't feel like making a complaint to a teacher, try to show the bullies that you couldn't careless what they do They will soon get fed up with picking on you.

DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE! Life will get so much better, just hang in there. At least you have a home and food, there are so many people that don't. Please don't kill yourself! Yes, there is a point in living. It's not your fault you're being bullied. Just think of something you like, like let's say you're into hockey, then you should go on a hockey team. You'll be suprised how fast you make friends. Life is so precious and short, and it's important to live it the best you can.

suicide only causes further grief. it will do nobody any good.

im ashamed to say it but i was a bully for a while, looking back i could never put myself in that position, yours that is. the best thing you can do is just completely not react to it, eventually they will get bored or realise that your no fun to pick on. is a tragedy of human nature, to pick on the unusaul but the unusual are the ones who shape society. just look at einsten!!! :D

bullies usually have a hard time themselves and are only desperately trying to reach out to somebody. something has happened to them at some point and they are only venting supresed anger. in time they will realisehow stupid they have been. maybe even appolagise to you. dont wait for this but try not to hate them

i have problem sleeping too, have you ever tried counting sheep??? hehe sorry bad joke :) if you just ware yourself out before you sleep, go for a run or something like that. take up a hobby that occupies what you do most of the time until you feel cnfidet in yourself enough to rise above the ****.

life is for living, not for throwing away. a small portion of your life you have led. await the rest with the upmost anticipation :)

good luck :)

xx

Things really will get better, even though it doesn't seem like it now. I had a bad time in school, but turned it around when I graduated. Sounds like you need to let out a bunch of frustration by talking with someone. You need to be able to trust at least one person. This can take time, but you have to do this. You have a good life ahead of you; you are just getting started. You may be surprised if you try! :o) Not sleeping will not help at all. I do know about insomnia, and you should talk to your family doctor. They can really help you. You do not need to be afraid to ask for help, because there are people who will help you.

i went through some rough times at school. i went through this time of having no friends and being bullied a bit. but it can be easily changed. i made the effort to make new friends and it worked. you wont get anywhere not trying, believe me. when you have more friends you'll find you wont get bullied as much as you'll have people to stand by you and back you up. if you show your scared in front of a bully the more they will pick up on this and bully you. show no weakness and show you're not bothered. then you wont feel these suicidal feelings you'll be having too much of a fun time with your friends to even consider it. <<<<this aint bullshit trust me it WILL WORK

you need to talk to some one my darling and the sooner you do it can be dealt with best wishes

dont kill youself! things will get better! i feel the same as you, but people are always telling me that it will get better and you just have to wait! please dont commit suicide... you cant change it! plus you would never know what you may have got out of life!

what the point in dying?
your still in school ; so much more to live for
no frends ; i no what its like. Trust me. its a tough time now.Just dont listen to them .. or if they are phiscally bullies just go to a gym in half term.. then kick ther a*ss!
sleeping problem; just take a sleeping pill. With your parents guidence :P .. jokes
anyway .. if yooh get bored ... just visit my page :) msn?

EDIT: Its got to get bad before it gets good. That is so true :)

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

You need to talk to people, try talking to mum and dad, you'll be surprised what they know. If not insist on getting help from someone professional.

And remember my motto

DON'T LET THE BASTARDS GRIND YOU DOWN.





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