How do i get my mother to stop bothering me?!
Question: every morning before school my mother wakes me up ..this is how she wakes me up the majority of the time.. pushes the door wide open and starts talking really loud like im already awake mind you im depressed and depressed people get annoyed easily and exhausted right when they wake up throughout the day and when i dont respond to her she says ridiculous things like "oh your afraid of your class" to piss me off because thats one of the most retarded things ive ever heard in my life and theirs more stupid things she says like go take a shower and use soap like wth obviously i use soap i dont just stand their and just run the water lol and oh youll never pass if you dont even go to your first class and things like that every single morning this happens (she basically puts my hopes down for a better day)
but i can't help that im really tired from having depression for the passed year she really makes my life worse (my life is the cake and shes the icing) im really tired of it
Answers: every morning before school my mother wakes me up ..this is how she wakes me up the majority of the time.. pushes the door wide open and starts talking really loud like im already awake mind you im depressed and depressed people get annoyed easily and exhausted right when they wake up throughout the day and when i dont respond to her she says ridiculous things like "oh your afraid of your class" to piss me off because thats one of the most retarded things ive ever heard in my life and theirs more stupid things she says like go take a shower and use soap like wth obviously i use soap i dont just stand their and just run the water lol and oh youll never pass if you dont even go to your first class and things like that every single morning this happens (she basically puts my hopes down for a better day)
but i can't help that im really tired from having depression for the passed year she really makes my life worse (my life is the cake and shes the icing) im really tired of it
Have you seen a doctor about your depression? If not, get it sorted. It's worth doing and should make a change.
Secondly why don't you wake yourself up with an alarm? Surprise her and be awake already!
If that isn't possible, then maybe have a talk with her and just ask her to come in and give you a nudge and a 'good morning' or something. Tell her you're a) not a morning person, and b) not stupid and then thank her for waking you up sensibly.
My mom used to do similar things - like she'd come rushing in and say "OMG, it's 8 o'clock, you're gonna be late" when it was only 7am. About gave me a heart attack every time!! It was my own fault though because I was a night owl and found it difficult to get to sleep at night - so I was always tired in the morning. I just should have used an alarm and avoided the whole freaking-out thing every morning.
BTW, sorry to hear about your dad and your family's mental health issues - all the more reason to get your own health sorted out. Good luck!
Address the problems to her, and I am sure she will understand. If you are battling with depression, it is a hard one; I should know, I struggled with it for years. I would call up your doctor, and get reccommended to a therapist, they are all usually very nice. I wish the best of luck to you, you are in my prayers.
I am really sorry to hear about your depression. It sounds like you are holding up pretty well, and one thing you can do to make your days go better is to beat your mother to the punch. If she goes into her routine at the same time each morning, set your alarm for a half hour earlier than that and get up, shower and get dressed. If you finish before she gets to you, she will have nothing to say and it will reduce your stress considerably.
Good luck to you. Stay strong!
And.........what do you have? Besides being a teenager, wanting to be against your parent? No parent is going to be "doing the right thing" right now at your age. She is just a bother, and you want her to basically leave you alone and "do what you want to do, and when you want to" not on her terms.
BE thankful you EVEN have a mother, someone that really cares for you! She may have paranoid schziphrenia, but that doesn't make her a "stupid person trying to piss you off," that makes her mentally ill, and a mother trying to be a mother, by doing what she has to do to get you "out of bed and to school." I'm not saying she may be "out of line" in the way she is doing it, but it works, doesn't it?
Yes, it is a sad thing that your dad has cancer, but don't you think that bothers your MOM too? Even if they are no longer together, she still had you by him, and that bond is always there to some degree. Your Mom doesn't want him to die any more then you do! I'm a mother of four kids that are now adults themselves that divorced their father many years ago, and he is now very sick as well, and death is a threat to him! But none the less, I don't want him to die, nor be in the condition he is in. YOUR MOM feels the same way now.
GIVE HER BREAK! Get help for your own depression! IF it involves counseling, then GO! IF it invovles meds, then TAKE it! Do things to help yourself, instead of taking it out on your MOM! ONE OF THESE DAYS, YOUR MOM WILL BE GONE TOO! Then you will be sorry for your attitude today!
WOW. That's a long sentence without any punctuation marks, and as so, makes no sense whatsoever. Maybe you should pay attention to your English at school.
Life is difficult. It's so obvious your mother cares for you to go to all that trouble, but it's your feelings inside that keep you from seeing how much she loves you. Your heart is hard. You need to repent and ask Jesus Christ to come into your heart.
"Cast away from you all the transgressions which you have committed, and get yourselves a new heart and a new spirit. For why should you die,...? For I have no pleasure in the death of one who dies," says the Lord God. "Therefore turn and live!" (Ezekiel 11:19-21 & 18:31-32)
Barricade your door.