Am I too nice?!


Question: I've always been such a good hearted person, always trying to do what is right, and help others before myself. I've also been walked all over numerous times.. but I keep helping that person. Does anyone else have this same issue?


Answers: I've always been such a good hearted person, always trying to do what is right, and help others before myself. I've also been walked all over numerous times.. but I keep helping that person. Does anyone else have this same issue?

I know exactly how you feel! I have always put the feelings, and well-being of others before myself. I am always ready to lend a hand to people that need it, yet when I could use a shoulder to cry on, or someone just to listen to me all those people I have helped are nowhere to be found. It doesn't matter how many times I have been burnt by trying to help people out..... It is just how I am.... I can't change that. True it just opens me up to being walked all over, but I really do believe it is better to give than receive.

I guess that sound kind of corny, but I rather live in a world with people like us, than in a world where everybody just cares about themselves.

yep, you're not alone :-)

yes the part about helping others before myself yes! and i use to let people run over me and i wouldnt never say anything to them but now im the type of person if you keep pushing my buttons im going to tell you off. you need to speak your mind and let them know that you are tired of them running you over and that you dont have to put up with it! best of luck to you

gesh you sound just like me lol. i trust others wayyy too much and i have a hard time saying no. as a result, i am constantly stressed. you are not alone =/

yeh me too, i need to get stronger but not sure how to.

This is called passive-aggressive. Get assertiveness training and practice it often.Also read up on healthy boundaries.

Do not despair of doing good to others. In time, God will reward you for them. God loves you and you are precious to Him.

In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives us air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives us water to drink and food to eat.
God gives us a wonderful body and a sound mind and life.
God loves us, and we are precious to Him.
The Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation, and qualifying us to Heaven.
Jesus



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