Help me i am scared?!
Question: i am scared of the future what will become of me when i grow up what will i do for a job will it work out for me i am so scared i need your help i pray to buda every day and i think he telling me to come here and ask i am so scared please help me i even have nightmare i am 14 year old but i have this nightmare every week i want it to stop T^T
Answers: i am scared of the future what will become of me when i grow up what will i do for a job will it work out for me i am so scared i need your help i pray to buda every day and i think he telling me to come here and ask i am so scared please help me i even have nightmare i am 14 year old but i have this nightmare every week i want it to stop T^T
seems like you have anxiety and panic attacks with fear ...i had that for 3 years ... i just took a homeo pathic medicine "ignatia amara" 30 x 1 tablet twice a day for 3 days and i am fine
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Dude, you're freaking out, relax. Could it be the stress at school? You know you don't have to pick a college at 16, graduate in 4 years, get married, have kids and live happily ever after. You have plenty of time to figure it out. 14 sucks. high school is a joke. Don't listen to people who say you gotta do good in high school. NO ONE looks at that crap, except for like Harvard. You know once you pick a career path you're by no means locked into it for the rest of your life. There are so many different ways to live your life and it usually takes you til your late 20's to chill out and know who you are. Are your parents cool? If they are it's not like they are gonna throw you in the street the moment you graduate high school and say "good luck".
Goodness.....settle down breath! Your only 14 honey, dont worry about these things! think about hot girls and video games! Im 15 and right now im focused on being well......15......be a teenager and try to focus on teenage things! hope this helps babe.
It sounds as though you are suffering from anxiety and panic attacks. I also used to suffer from this until I got on some really good medicine from my dr. Please go to your Dr. asap and tell them how you have been feeling. There are some realy good medicines out there nowadays to help you. It is amazing how much better you can feel.Please go and get the help you need.
scare, you have to fhit it, its all our life
Well hung,
The future is what you can make of it.
Make best use of all the resources you can and don't worry about something that may never happen. Live each day in a positive way and think about ways you can be good at what you can do best.
Hi,
We are all scared... Life is scary, but we do our best. I was scared of becoming an adult at your age. I thought I could never do what my dad could do.....but by the time I was 18, I was ready to try.
I am 45 now...I am married with three kids..one who is your age. Just let things come as they may. IT takes time.
I have other fears now that I have to face...I am scared too, but we must face it. running or hiding from it is not an option.
Hang in there....we can get through this!
life is too short to worry about being scared, you are young and have many yrs til you have to decide on the rest of your life, stay in school, be part of school activities, and get involved in sports if possible, you make your life what it will be in the future, and we were all put here to eventual die-thats part of life, so live each day as if it would be your last one.
Don't be scared of your future. I am 14 also and I thing about this too. What will i do for a job? How much money will I make? Who will I marry? ect. We all have to take these things step by step and live in the moment. Our future only depends on how we live our past. You need to set up a goal for yourself and work on it step by step to make your future worth living. Good luck!
you should not stress about this at 14. enjoy being young, you will be working for the rest of your life once you're an adult.
do good in school, that is your ticket to success. get good marks in college, if you decide to become say an engineer for example you can pretty much have a job anywhere you want.
Life is scary. Especially at your age when growing up becomes a reality. You are being normal just some ppl voice it more than others. There is a reason and a purpose for everyones existance. Ppl discover it at diff times in their life. You will be fine. Relax. Do the things that you know are expected of you and what direction you decide to go when your older. If you don't know that now, you will in time. Your young. Take life one day at a time and enjoy every minute of it. You have a destiny. And one day you will see it. Just slow your mind down. Meditate to relax.
What are you scared of? You are only 14 ~ you have a few years yet before you have to decide what you want to do as a job, and in life, etc.
You will become a man. You will find a job you like (don't we all wish we liked our jobs).
What is the nightmare about? We all have nightmares......they are just bad dreams. Try to think of pleasant things before you go to bed.
Make a list of things you want in life. Then make a list of how you might go about getting them. Pick the most important to you and concentrate on one or two steps that will move you along the path of getting there. Nothing is accomplished without a PLAN and Steps (tactics) to get there. Let you mind run free at first ~ nothing is carved in stone. You may change your mind a hundred times between 14 and 18 or 22.
You will be OK ~ all teenagers have this intrepidation as they near adulthood. I did. But you find your way........I promise....You will find your way. But only you can do it. Nobody should tell you what or where you should do/go in life. It is YOUR LIFE ~ YOURS TO LIVE ~~~ So think about it and LIVE IT.
just survive a day at a time--- that's what most of us do. If you do your best or as good as you can the future will be OK. Re the nightmare suggestions reading a joke book or some light fiction before sleeping. Having incense in your room for a pleasant perfume may help. Changing your sheets for a pleasant clean smell is also something that may help. Talk to other family members they may be able to help. Warm milk with honey can be very relaxing at night. No movie viewing as may be disturbing..
At 14 it's a little young to be worrying about what you'll be doing for your career a lot of kids your age change their minds lots of time before they finish high school not to mention college. Talk to one of your counselors at school so that they can help you if you can't talk to your parents. You have to finish school first before you start to worry about what you want to do as a career.
One thing that will help you is to take one day at a time and do the best that you can on that day. It's the only thing that you can do that will make it comfortable for you day to day.
When you hit your early to mid teen years... you start to think in more abstract ways. You also become more aware of how little control you have over some things. You realize even your family can't protect you with somethings. It is an adjustment period... to refine some insights and coping styles that will continue to serve you. You can have an "overactive" thinking process at your age... that can add to your stress level and anxiety.
If this is getting too troublesome... there are lots of ways to deal with this. A teacher or counselor could be helpful. You might get tested out so you can get some career direction. Then you can have a goal you are working toward.
You are in a great time of your life. You should be enjoying your friends, experiencing nature, playing hard so you are so tired you will fall asleep... (not lay there and worrying about things). Spend sometime involving yourself in nature...plants, animals, biology. Explore and devote/volunteer some time to ecology issues. You will meet some interesting people that have many ideas/insights that might be able to put some aspects of life into perspective for you!
Good Luck! My best answer!
well of coarse ur gunna feel dat way u dumb canadian
ur not suppose 2 * praying 2 bhudda ur suppose 2 pray 2 God u idiot
thats why ur so scared if u dnt pray 2 God den daz wuz gunna become of u--->dead