Please help..im one of those confused teenagers...?!


Question: Ok well, where do i start.
I have a high level of depression and stress.
I'm the most self concious person you will ever meet.
i think im the ugliest person on this planet.
I'm just wondering..if any of you have any tips that got you past these teen moments if you had them?
it would really help me to hear what everyone else did.
and please. No rude comments....seriously -_-
thanks <3


Answers: Ok well, where do i start.
I have a high level of depression and stress.
I'm the most self concious person you will ever meet.
i think im the ugliest person on this planet.
I'm just wondering..if any of you have any tips that got you past these teen moments if you had them?
it would really help me to hear what everyone else did.
and please. No rude comments....seriously -_-
thanks <3

ok fu<k medication, seriously...u will only become addicted and depressed even more when ur off of it...i went thru the same stage as u, my advice is to confront all those a holes that are giving u a hard time, find some friends that love u, but most of all look into the cause of ur depression as it may be due to some kind of resolvable issue...and seriously the girls that think they are the ugliest person on the planet are usually the cutest. :)...so dont let everyone else get u down, just try to find something that makes u feel better other than drugs, those are for when u are over depression and ready to party!

maybe u need help or going through a depression stage

Teen depression is the WORST! Don't take medication. It screws you up and you cant focus seriously it doesn't work. The best you can do is to do things that you enjoy. This can be as simple as going for a walk, listening to music, watching a movie, get a makeover, go to a game, things that you have fun doing. Don't let stupid people get in the way of you having fun...remember they are all *** holes. Just be yourself no matter what they say or do to you.

the best therapy is to write in a journal, take a walk, or listen to some music you can relate to and just know that you will make it through

Little one we all go through something when we are teens, But I think that your a beautiful child of God, and I pray that you open up your eyes to see the beauty that God created, take a good look at your self I bet you have wonderful eyes, and a beautiful smile, we all have issues about our selves, we just have to learn to love our selves, and as far as your depression, and stress give that mess to God Pray and say God I'm tired of being this way I'm putting this mess in your hands you take and make me free from this that keeps me from the joy you want to bless me with, in Jesus Christ mighty name amen, God loves you and it hurts him to see you this way let him make your heart Whole and complete, God Bless you

everyone in highschool goes through this. it's so normal! i wouldn't go back to highschool of someone paid me... seriously! when you are older, you will look back and realize how serious you thought everything was. i have so much confidence now that i am out. highschool is so crucial! i wish you could skip through those years because it's so much better now. LOOK TO THE FUTURE! the hard times you are going through now will be well worth it in the end. you are not ugly. everyone thinks they are in highschool! you are not alone, by any means!

i feel you because im the same way i found talking to a close friend helps me...it was really hard at first but if they care they can really help...sorry if i didnt help

Being a teen is a difficult stage of life! Teens are mixing with other teens and they all are trying to find them selves! Find out who they are and who they want to be. For most, caring parents have done their best to steer their prodgy in the right direction (not always true)and the teen will realize that is the case and follow the parents guidance in some cases, or may want to adapt the ideas of friends, peers, weither they are right or wrong! Following the wrong ideas means that the teen will go through a more difficult development, having to learn on their own or the hard way so to speak. This may not have a thing to do with you at this time, just food for thought. Depression is said by the professional's to be a chemical disorder and it may be. It may be that it is a natural chemical imbalance or one that we have brought on ourselves by making bad decisions compromising our norms and standards (my depression) or maybe in your case you have made things worse than they auctually are, which seems to be common with teens! Being self concious, is being self critical. Its not bad to be concerned about how you appear externally or internally but your soul is where the real you resides! The you that God see's is the person that lives on when the body, however beautiful turns to dust! You can put your trust in God as your creator and as your Saviour, he wants to have a realationship with you! He wants you to know him and to trust in him casting all your cares on him! No one can be trusted on the level that your creator and Saviour is to you in this life! And oh what a friend! If God is for you, who can be against you! There are some blessed people whom are beautiful and have a good heart but there are many who are just nice to look at! The external beauty they have, last but a short while, whats more important by far, is how does the soul look? It's that that lives on and is either a glory to God in time or not!

Well I didn't know I could get threw all the same-o same-o or 'Church' teachings, come on guys think for yourself. Ya I know all the crap I'll get from saying that, but since my parents divorced when I was 10yrs. old it was the 'people' who went to church that made my life misable, even as an adult.
I too was an 'outcast' since my Mom moved my Sister & I all over, no it wasn't to get out of paying rent, our moves were 3day mathons. That comercial about the 'New Girl' at lunch was my life, going to 7 different schools in one yr., was 'H'. I HAD to throw a trantrum, begg, fight my Mom to make her stay where we were living for another yr. so I could graduate where I was going to H.School for 6mons. My 'Friends' were the outcasts, the ones that everyone THOUGHT we did & sell drugs, some 'dropped out' of school. One night we were invited to a party throwen by the cheerleaders & Jocks.WOW! we never saw so much 'Booze' or drugs all in one place in our life. I talked to one of the 'Cheerleaders' she told me, well we put on an act of being the best in school, but you don't know how many of us go to school after we've been drinking or smokking pot, cause the Teachers think were so good we don't do our homework, or study, she said in fact I can hardley read. Since we put on a 'Good Front' for the school we get away with almost anything.
As one member said when your older you won't think of 'the horrid days of H.School, your there to learn & not being as popular as you think you should is just another thing for you to learn. You talk first tell someone what a 'pretty shirt she has on'..'.what a great smile they have', belive me you will have more friends then you know what to do with.
No one is 'UGLY' with a big heart that you seem to have. try it & let us know how its going.
You have all of us 'here' as your friends, I know its not the same, just think that were a BIG group & were all your friend & love you. leave your phone number on my e-mail, no one but me will have it, I'll call you to see how you are.I'm an older woman, with health problems, so I'm safe. A older woman took my daughter under her wing when she was a teenager, I'm just passing what she gave my daughter to someone else. hugs, pegiS





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