I genuinely hate people for no apparent reason. What's wrong with me?!
Question: Don't be scared, I don't want to hurt anyone. I am not a sociopathic killer, just worried what is wrong with me.
Answers: Don't be scared, I don't want to hurt anyone. I am not a sociopathic killer, just worried what is wrong with me.
You would be a misanthrope.
Are you sure there's no reason? Or do you hate humanity as a whole for some reasons, and secretly suspect every person of these traits that you hate, and therefore hate them?
i have felt like that before. i think it's because you see through all their b.s. & it's disparaging. people suck ha-ha
(not really but there is some truth in it)
maybe you are so naturally optimistic & caring & all that good stuff that you are constantly disappointed in the "humanness" of people. we are all flawed & it's hard not to notice it sometimes.
I am the exact same way. Part of it is my upbringing, part of it is the reversed sensitivity and perceptability of my disorder, and part of it is the fact I think humanity is just a bunch of dumbshit apes with no purpose or significance amongst the mass of life.
Maybe people or just life in general seems as though its done you wrong. Its been that way for me, and it makes me feel as though i always get the short straw, everyone else has it so good, and people have it so easy, and ha, if i only had that persons life, i wouldnt complain like they do. But we all know its not that way, everyone has problems, and we are ALL human. So try not to hate. For me, i hate rude ignorant people who think they are something bigger or more special. Fact is they are going to die, like all of us.and their money will buy them no different, so they are not bigger or more special.
I would like to think it is not all people but if you hate people for no apparent reason I would look within first you need to find out what it is you don't like it could be that the people you meet are happy in their life and you feel cheated, or if your not happy to look at someone who has a smile on their face makes you mad. So after you figure out what you don't like about them it will tell you what the problem is. Think of it this way you have no idea what someone Else's life is like they may have a sick child or someone close to them is in the hospital. This is your trial to work out don't walk around mad at people you don't even know. Life is to short for that. You are the only one that can make your life better.
If their is no reason then I would go for some help just to know
To many people in this world go around angry make a difference today
If these people are so awful and rotten that you just can't help hating them then you, yourself, must be pretty fabulous. You have the natural right to hate others because of your perfection. It must be nice to be so perfect. Hating people is your right because you are so great and perfect. If only everyone could be like you then you wouldn't have to hate everyone. They would be fabulous like you. Wouldn't that be great?
you hate other people because you hate yourself, you have some inner unresolved issues, maybe some built up angry? and express that by hating and raging at others.
dude, get a job as a prison guard, or a cop. torture poor people who made a decision based on their past.
There are lots of possible reasons.
Consider that anger is a facet of fear. You may need to think of what about people (the ones for no apparent reason in your eyes) you dislike.
Example:
Lets say you are relatively poor with little money. Do you tend to hate those with money or possessions that flash them around?
Do you dislike others that are different from your background? If you are black, do they tend to be white or jewish or whatever?
Do outgoing people make you uncomfortable, therefore you dislike them? Because you are shy?
My point isn't that one kind of person is bad or better. I mention this because we often "hate" that which is different from what we know.
To fix the problem...seek to understand the fear. Understand the hate. If you know yourself...and what makes you tick...and then seek to generally understand that all people basically have the same fears (no one likes differences until they see that it doesn't hurt to be different)....you are well on your way to tolerance.
And tolerance leads to understanding. And understanding leads to appreciation...and appreciation leads to liking...at least occasionally.
Everything can be scary. Smile and watch...look for the similarities versus the differences. Develop patience.
The anger will lessen. The fear will dissipate with time.
Good luck..you are well on your way!