Is this as bad as I think?!
Question: My cousins husband touches me sexually. I am 15 now and I have no control over what he does anymore. Since I was 11 he was always trying to look down my shirt and rubbing my thigh, then on day he decided to stick his hand under my *** and in front trying to rub my crotch. He would tell me to move my hair or to undo my shirt a bit (just so he could get a better look) and he is always telling me that I am so beautiful and im sexy and that i ';look so good' and he tries to kiss me and makes me feel like the bad guy, he talks to my mother and says he doesn't like I like him ....well of course I dont! god!! , SO MY QUESTION IS.....IS THIS WRONG?
Answers: My cousins husband touches me sexually. I am 15 now and I have no control over what he does anymore. Since I was 11 he was always trying to look down my shirt and rubbing my thigh, then on day he decided to stick his hand under my *** and in front trying to rub my crotch. He would tell me to move my hair or to undo my shirt a bit (just so he could get a better look) and he is always telling me that I am so beautiful and im sexy and that i ';look so good' and he tries to kiss me and makes me feel like the bad guy, he talks to my mother and says he doesn't like I like him ....well of course I dont! god!! , SO MY QUESTION IS.....IS THIS WRONG?
It IS as bad as you think it is.
It's probably worse than you think it is.
Call the police for him and call a doctor for you because you are what's important here. It is very upsetting for you and you deserve to have an outstanding therapist to talk it all over with.
This really blows my mind.
Call everyone you know.
Thank God we live in a world where everybody is now in agreement about how wrong it is for men to do things like this.
He is emotionally and psychologically ill. Who knows why. Just run away as fast as you can and call everyone on earth and tell them to keep him away from you.
Thank God you are okay so far.
He is a criminal.
This is the way the crime of abuse happens. An adult relative who is not a blood relative touches children under 18 years of age.
Call the police. If you have the courage to call everyone on earth right now, then it will all be over.
Yes, it's wrong. His actions were terrible.
Abusing a teenager is about the worst thing a man can do.
It's not only wrong, it's despicable. A man (especially your cousin's husband) should not touch you inapropriately without your explicit consent.
It is sexual harrasment and is VERY BAD. It is also PUNISHABLE BY LAW.
Yes it is wrong. Call the police.
yes this is very wrong he could be put in jail for a VERY LONG TIME. you need to tell someone. sexual abuse shouldnt be tolerated
Yes, this is wrong!
Please tell someone you trust immediately. (an adult like a parent, a preacher, a teacher, a grandparent)
yes he should got to jail and get sex ed from bubba u need to to turn that perv in
OHHH! GOD!!! THAT IS SO WRONG!! EEEK! TELL SOMEONE RIGHT AWAY!!! That is NOT normal. You are not the bad guy here. He is.
Um, YES! Very wrong. If what you're saying is true, this guy sounds like a pedophile. I would immediately tell your cousin and your parents. You could even get him arrested for sexual harassment, if you wish.
You need to walk your b utt to the phone, and report him to the police. ASAP, Preferably Now. Yes it is as bad as you think, and it is wrong, and it is sexual assault.Call the cops, hes a jerk and deserves to be arrested, dont think otherwise.
it is VERY wrong for him to do this for you. you need to tell your mother what he has been doing to you. speak up. i am praying for you =]
yup. it is .. tell your cousin now. JUST CAUSE HE WANTS HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO.
tell your parents and if they don't do anything tell a teacher or guidance councilor or go to the police he's molesting you. it is wrong on his part.
OMG... that is soo wrong... u NEED to tell someone about him. He shouldnt be touching you like that. What are u affraid of, he cant do **** to u!
U NEED to tell ur cousin or ur mom for you and for ur cousin. He has no right talking to u or touching u like that...
By telling someone u will be helping so many people:
*ur self
* ur cousin!
My bestfirends older sister used to get sexually harrased by her step father and she never said anything for 6 years untill she just could take it any more.
You need to rebell!
He can go to jail for stuff like that!
If no one beliees you ...
one day like ... this is going to sound doo wrong... but lead him on and record the **** he does!
Take care of ur self!
If this isn't a joke, please call the police right now.
ASAP , i'm not joking!
you should know better at your age girl.
Yes it is as bad as you think. What he is doing is WRONG!!! It is also a crime.
Tell an adult you trust right away. If you don't know one, call the police. Most importantly, do not allow yourself to be alone with him ever. Ever!
Tell your mom and your cousin. Perhaps this will put an end to it.
Absolutely!!! Its very wrong. He's a sick bastard.
I would tell your mother what's been going on. You wont get into trouble but its best to tell her now then to leave it and it then gets worse. (possibly lead to rape, who knows what this sicko is capable of)
He could get charged for what he's doing to you if you decide to take it further but that's entirely up to you but i do believe in telling someone, if not your mother.
Goodluck hun.
you bet... knock him on his ***.... that is unwanted sexual advances... Tell his wife.... be honest. she probably does not know what the little jerk is doing behind her back.
Yes, he is definitely wrong. He is committing a crime! Tell your parents as soon as possible & tell them you don't want to be left in a room alone with him.
You can tell him you will call the police if he dares to come near you again, but hopefully that won't happen since you would have told your parents.already.
This may seem confusing because a part of you may like the attention & even feel aroused, but HE is still wrong.
Remember, you can say NO!!!
You may need to go for short term counseling to talk about this.
If your parents don't believe you, tell a school counselor or teacher.
Good luck to you.